Grace1973 Posted March 21, 2010 Posted March 21, 2010 I posted a few weeks back about this new guy I've been seeing where there's been no physical contact besides a quick kiss on the lips as we say goodbye after a date. Well there has been absolutely no progress in that respect, although we are definitely becoming closer on other levels. We see each other once or twice a week and are going away together for Easter (separate rooms ), and he has asked me to accompany him to visit relatives who live in the US later in the year. I so want to get a degree of intimacy with him, but don't know how to initiate it. He's made the first move in every other respect so far and I suppose I'm waiting for him to do it. I'm constantly wondering if I should try and initiate something, but then think "well if he wanted to, he'd have done it himself". But oh for a proper kiss or even a holding of hands would be good! Every date we've been on has been in public places so far; I'm not in a position to invite him back to my place as I'm living with family right now - I'm sure that would help. I just don't know what to do. We're not youngsters (late 30s)and I'm not the sort of person to jump into bed with someone after 2 dates, but there's slow and there's slow! Help!
Pfiend101 Posted March 21, 2010 Posted March 21, 2010 Make the first move. Trust me Guys love it when you women make the first move. He probably isn't sure if you want it.
bubbles5 Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 Flirt with him , givee him signs that u want more intimate moments. Guess due to age he may b feeling awkard n may b he is shy. dont worry but give him signs that u want more intimate moments.
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