Lucy_b Posted March 21, 2010 Posted March 21, 2010 Okay so here is my story it's random please bare with me. Yesterday after giving my partner another chance my partner got cold feet again now I was brought a fish tank for xmas I did not want it but kept it any way as I had live fish and I can't flush them down the toilet I tried to find a home for them which did not work. I called my ex to tell them that I would be brining the fish tank back to them I went through a huge clean up of throwing things away to clear my thinking space and go trough the motions with out having to look at things and be reminder of my partner and the past. I got no dial so my partner changed or blocked my number which is cool I got lift with this fish tank off my friend I knocked on the window got no response and went through the gate as I opened the back door I plopped the fish tank on the side and said "keep the fish" and adjusted the lid on the top as if that made things better. As I left my partner come out after me and told me to wait and grabbed my arm I continued to walk to the door and my partners phone rang and said to me look it's Katie. My response was I do not care that's it thats enough im going end of my partner wanted for me to talk about it and I refused as I opened the door my partner asked who was waiting in the car I said my friend and i'm going im off out latter and I am all ready late. As I left my partner kicked the door as I went to shut it and kept on beating up the door and it hit me I managed to shut the door and there was a bolt on the top and I locked it and walked to the car while my partner was screaming that i locked them in there own home. And now im lost and confused what do I do?
Lishy Posted March 21, 2010 Posted March 21, 2010 I am lost and confused too! What advice do you want? Is it about the fish and who the hell is Katie??
Author Lucy_b Posted March 21, 2010 Author Posted March 21, 2010 katie is no one just a friend of my now ex but for some reason when the phone rang my ex decided to tell me who it was which was completely irrelevant. I am wondering if maybe I went a bit to far by walking in with the fish tank and walking off with out listening to my ex and maybe been a bi*ch. I just want to know how do I move on from this without my ex trying to make any kind of contact
threebyfate Posted March 21, 2010 Posted March 21, 2010 I'm also totally lost. How do you bolt the door from the outside? If your partner aka ex wants to contact you, he will. You cannot control his actions. But you can control your own actions by not responding to him.
Author Lucy_b Posted March 21, 2010 Author Posted March 21, 2010 theres a latch on the door on the outside and i locked that but my partner went nuts thats why i did it cause my partner was kicking and punching the door like a loony all because I took a fish tank back and would not stay and talk about it. My brain let off wind and has gone into dribble mode.
LovelyDaze Posted March 21, 2010 Posted March 21, 2010 I am lost and confused too! What advice do you want? Is it about the fish and who the hell is Katie?? I'm just as confused. It's not because the story is random, but unintelligible to read. If I constructed the puzzle right, you want to know how to move on from the push & pull of the relationship you've been having with your ex? Simple. Forget the fish tank at his place, don't accept another call, forget whoever Katie is and spend some alone time with yourself to heal.
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