Lucy_b Posted March 21, 2010 Posted March 21, 2010 Has anyone ever had a soul mate who completed you more than love sex friendship the whole package. yet at the time you was unaware of until they left you or you pushed them away. Do you regret it did you patch things back up what do you feel?
mrkleen Posted March 21, 2010 Posted March 21, 2010 I believe there are multiple people that you meet over the course of your life that could be considered your soul mate - and it is really all about timing. If I could have drawn up a description of the perfect woman for me....my last GF would have fit the bill 99% of the way. She has the looks I like, was smart, funny, financially secure, athletic, etc etc. We had a great 6 months but in the end our schedules and what we wanted at this point in our lives turned out to clash (I was ready for a bit more commitment - she just wanted it all to remain casual and on the side) She pushed me away, and within a few weeks of the break up was calling and expressing her second thoughts. I think that she and I very easily could have been together forever - and I think we very well may get back together at some point in the future...but for now, we both have to move on - date other people - and see where life takes us. If in 6 months we are both still thinking of each other and both still available, we may try it again. You often dont realize what you have until it is gone, but you also have to want to get to the bottom of your feelings. You clearly pushed him away for some reason....and if you dont spend time figuring out why you did that, or what you are afraid of - you will never be able to work things out properly. Spend some time working on yourself - go out and live your life - and see where the chips fall in the future.
Tony T Posted March 21, 2010 Posted March 21, 2010 You often dont realize what you have until it is gone, but you also have to want to get to the bottom of your feelings. You clearly pushed him away for some reason....and if you dont spend time figuring out why you did that, or what you are afraid of - you will never be able to work things out properly. Spend some time working on yourself - go out and live your life - and see where the chips fall in the future. Excellent truth...excellent advice!
Author Lucy_b Posted March 21, 2010 Author Posted March 21, 2010 I just wanted to see what people have been through when they pushed someone away and how it turns out in the end weather they still have strong feelings or afraid of commitment. Just recently split with my ex I wanted commitment my ex got extremely cold but very torn and I got pushed away twice now so I have gone all NC. Even though we was extremely close very loving and never try to control each others freedom we did as we pleased went out where we want and was all ways there for each other and it has gone sour.
single-n-lonely Posted March 21, 2010 Posted March 21, 2010 I thought so..... until he cheated on me.
mrkleen Posted March 21, 2010 Posted March 21, 2010 I just wanted to see what people have been through when they pushed someone away and how it turns out in the end weather they still have strong feelings or afraid of commitment. Just recently split with my ex I wanted commitment my ex got extremely cold but very torn and I got pushed away twice now so I have gone all NC. Even though we was extremely close very loving and never try to control each others freedom we did as we pleased went out where we want and was all ways there for each other and it has gone sour. Lucy - in the end if he is pushing you away and he is afraid of commitment, then it is up to HIM to sort through his issues. If he does, you two could reconcile in the future. But most people are VERY RELUCTANT to take the steps necessary to make real changes in their life. Dont be surprised if this guy never changes....and if that is the case, reconciling with him will set you up for a lifetime of ups and downs that will just tear you up inside.
Tnerforireyeh Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 Every girl I screw is my soul mate for that night.
aerogurl87 Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 I thought my ex was my soulmate, we bonded on a level that is pretty much unheard of. Sexual attraction was off the charts, emotional attachment was unbelievable, and yet he ended up being like a drug to me. I couldn't get enough of him and although he made me happier than anyone I had met in my life up to that point, he also was the very thing that was destroying my life. So good riddance to him. On a sidenote I don't believe in soulmates per say, but I do believe there are a few people in this world who can be highly compatible with each other. All the ones I meet seem to live far away from me though, for some strange odd reason...
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