shelovesyou Posted March 21, 2010 Posted March 21, 2010 ive recently broken up with my boyfriend and when we were together i didnt really see my friends. since then theyve all turnt their back on me and gone off to uni so theres no hope of reconciliation there. so anyway i have just a few friends. I have a best friend who i do everything with but she also has her own group of friends. I have another good mate who moved away so i dont get to see her alot. I also have 2 friends whom i see occasionally but its always me initiating contact with them. I dont seem to have a group of friends and feel very lonely as i never seem to actually go out anywhere with my friends, we just sit in and talk and then they go on their big nights out with their mates. where can i find some new friends?
bubbles5 Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 Involve urself in some hobby class or in work place , u wil find some frnds or some clubhouse . Secondly u have broken up with ur bf n it seems no one is paying too much attention so u can write down in a diary , well atleast u will vent out everything n feel a bit better. Then once u meet ur frnds bak hangout with them tell them that u were sorry for not paying much attention to them. And secondly if u again hook up with some1 dont repeat same mistake getting too much involved with ur bf that u 4get ur frnds.Cos later u need them.. I suggest write down in dairy or journal to vent out everything .Join some hobby or some gym where u can make new frnds
green_tea Posted March 23, 2010 Posted March 23, 2010 I hope this has taught you a lesson to still be there for your friends when you have a bf... Anyway why can't you join those friends in their big nights out? It might be as simple as just asking to go along. Tell them you're feeling low because of the break up, and would they mind letting you know next time they plan a night out? That way hopefully you can network and make friends out of their friends.
Brightmoon Posted March 23, 2010 Posted March 23, 2010 I hope this has taught you a lesson to still be there for your friends when you have a bf... Anyway why can't you join those friends in their big nights out? It might be as simple as just asking to go along. Tell them you're feeling low because of the break up, and would they mind letting you know next time they plan a night out? That way hopefully you can network and make friends out of their friends. I think this is a really good idea... Sorry about your break up... (((hugs))) Keep posting on here to work through your feelings. You need to express how you feel and not be cut off.. Wishing you the very best... ((hugs))
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