Rochelle28 Posted March 21, 2010 Posted March 21, 2010 Hi guys.....I'd appreciate your opinion on this one! I have never really vented online before and I'm new at this! OK.......so I met a guy online from a different state probably 6 months ago. He's a 12 hour drive away and I have been to visit him twice. Seems we are really into each other for now...........Although last night we were having a chat and this is what he came up with: "I like you heaps and heaps. I'm glad I met you and I want to hang out with you when both of us can. Serious relationships are crazy talk to me, so please do not go talking about one and scaring me off. I am looking for someone long term, and we both live so far away from each other and this is why I don't want to go rushing in to anything". From a guys oint of view....or anyone's point of view......Is this a copout or is it a wise thing to do ? I understand we cannot have a serious relationship with the distance, but what are your thoughts ?
TaraMaiden Posted March 21, 2010 Posted March 21, 2010 Translation: "Hey, when we meet up can we phukk? I'm not going to commit to you because you live so far away" (my parents lived in different countries for 3 years during their courting - no computers then! and 57 years later are still together, BTW....) "But you sound like a good-time girl until I find one closer to home! How 'bout it?" Choose. And enjoy, what ever you decide to do.....
SincereOnlineGuy Posted March 21, 2010 Posted March 21, 2010 I certainly won't and can't discount Tara's interpretation, but all of us would need the particulars about how hell-bent on sexual intimacy the guy was, during those two meetings, before we could fine-tune our perceptions of him. (mind you, it is OK if/that you had sex with him, even at first meeting - because that is how the internet tends to work) (I guess what I really want to understand is how deep anything else was) The internet can be GREAT for people who (basically just need to be kicked to inspire them to let their guard down in front of anybody) and especially for two people are both sincere and authentic, and find one another online. Consider that you can only get from it what you're willing to give to it, and then use your own sense of whether this guy has been all about sex and getting close, from the first time you met (in real life).
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