orangelondon Posted March 21, 2010 Posted March 21, 2010 I'll try to make this short, Ex walked out on me leaving me alone for Christmas, heard nothing from her, no text at NYears either. Early Jan i sent her an email which gave her some home truths, to anyone else it wouldn't have been interpreted as mean but to her, what i was saying was construed as "EVIL". She has walked out on me 5 times in the passed, off and on, taken me for granted, been totally selfish and she is also incredibly volatile, her moods are extreme, she can't apologise and is quick to anger. She walked out after another mood swing. I decided enough was enough. I returned her things early Jan, she called upset but then text saying 'She will always love me' blah blah heard it all before. Then the dumpee turned into the dumper. I made it clear she could not come back. I went NC but in late Jan heard she was in a rebound. Something she did before when we split two years ago and promised when we got back together she'd never do to me again. I broke NC Feb 10th and sent her a short email reminding her of this and saying that she has totally betrayed me and that i don't want anything more to do with her. Okay so the reason for posting : She just found out that i'm pen pals with one of her long distance friends. Today i receive a ranting angry email, i won't go into details but what has really got me is that so much she wrote was factually incorrect, saying 'we agreed that we wouldn't have contact with each others friends' - we never had this conversation, she also accused me of trying to befriend her friend which i didn't do, her friend contacted me. In fact the whole email was twisted and clearly doesn't take into account any of her own actions, its astonishing!! This is all she can be angry about?????? I wish i were in her shoes. I'm like WTF??? I'm really struggling to stay NC, its so hard because she is walking around mad as hell thinking all this stuff, which is mostly wrong, i want to set her straight so badly but it would mean breaking NC. What do you think guys? Help!
skydiveaddict Posted March 21, 2010 Posted March 21, 2010 I'm really struggling to stay NC, its so hard because she is walking around mad as hell thinking all this stuff, which is mostly wrong, i want to set her straight so badly but it would mean breaking NC. What do you think guys? Help! You're not doing NC by reading her email. Delete it. dont read it. Now you're worked up over something you never should have read in the first place. Who cares what she thinks?
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