bellaflor77 Posted March 21, 2010 Posted March 21, 2010 I was dating a guy two years ago. We were together for one year. One day unexpectedly I received a job offer to work abroad for one year. The opportunity was so good that I took it. My boyfriend wanted me to stay, but did not tell me. He said before I left that I must come back. I told him that I would come back. We did not keep in contact while I was abroad due to some misunderstandings. It took me longer than expected to come back to my country, because I still had work to do. It took me one year and a half to go back. When I came my ex-boyfriend was angry and ignoring me. He looked at me as if I was invisible, but he still said hello, and asked for my number. However, he did not call me. He called me later on when I talked to one of his friends, but our conversation was only job related. Last time I saw him he was in a better mood, he flirted with me, but I still can´t get him to call me, and every time I try to see him I feel like a fool, but I still love him. That is why I still try to see him. He is 47, and I am 32. He is divorced long time ago. I don´t know if he is dating someone else. He is very good looking. When we were dating he would call me every day, sometimes twice a day. So based on what I said, do you think I still have a chance with him, or is this a lost cause? What should I do?
bubbles5 Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 Invite him for a date or dinner,n talk to him,Ask him how was he n casual talk , u will come to know.Describe him abt ur work delay n stuff just casual tell him that u want to meet him just for dinner or lunch etc.
SilkRose Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 Next time you see him, be friendly, get him on his own and invite him to dinner and just talk it out. Explain things and figure it if you still want to be with him and if he wants to be with you. Good Luck!
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