laura-jean Posted March 21, 2010 Posted March 21, 2010 My boyfriend and I decided to split on wednesday evening. We had been going through a bad patch for quite a while and in more recent weeks had been arguing alot. I thought i would be happier on my own and with my own time and space but i miss him so so so much. I'm not eating and not sleeping, i half fall asleep on the sofa but when i go to bed i lie there and cry for hours. I can't stop crying, i need him, i need to see him and touch him. I know my friends are there for me and i'm fine when i'm with them, it's when i'm on my own that's the problem. However i feel like they dont understand how i feel and i feel like i have no-one i can truely talk to about how i'm feeling, especially not at stupid o'clock at night! I wish i could go back to wednesday and put it right. I'm falling apart without him :'(
supersub Posted March 21, 2010 Posted March 21, 2010 My boyfriend and I decided to split on wednesday evening. We had been going through a bad patch for quite a while and in more recent weeks had been arguing alot. I thought i would be happier on my own and with my own time and space but i miss him so so so much. I'm not eating and not sleeping, i half fall asleep on the sofa but when i go to bed i lie there and cry for hours. I can't stop crying, i need him, i need to see him and touch him. I know my friends are there for me and i'm fine when i'm with them, it's when i'm on my own that's the problem. However i feel like they dont understand how i feel and i feel like i have no-one i can truely talk to about how i'm feeling, especially not at stupid o'clock at night! I wish i could go back to wednesday and put it right. I'm falling apart without him :'( Hi Laura, I mutually split with my girlfriend and I understand exactly how you are feeling right now. Think about this way. You really cannot say or do the right things when you are so emotional, so my advice is to try to rationalise the situation and give your brain a break from it (Easier said than done I know) Once you have calmed down and the dust has settled then you will be in a better position to reach out to one another to communicate and trust me there will be several opportunities in the future. Don't worry about what you cannot control right now. Just keep yourself healthy, try to get some rest, and know that there are many people on this forum that have been in the same boat and are rooting for you. All the best.
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