2sure Posted March 25, 2010 Posted March 25, 2010 Dont get all junior high boy hopes up. Here is something that could also happen: - You may see 50-60 year old overweight men naked . The kind that you cannot see their testicles . Same for women with large natural breasts down to their belly buttons. You HAVE TO BE SURE YOU WILL NOT BE CONFRONTED WITH THIS . - You may find out that K and her friends are hot and that although she isnt going to have sex with him, her old boyfriend is there and maybe she wants him just a little bit jealous. just a little. - You may find out that if you bang another woman everything will be cool until her H wants to bang K and she says no. I just mean, people are weirder than you think you know? Seeing ugly people naked is out of the question and riskier over 40 . Make sure.
Author Philetus Posted March 25, 2010 Author Posted March 25, 2010 Dont get all junior high boy hopes up. Here is something that could also happen: - You may see 50-60 year old overweight men naked . The kind that you cannot see their testicles . Same for women with large natural breasts down to their belly buttons. You HAVE TO BE SURE YOU WILL NOT BE CONFRONTED WITH THIS . - You may find out that K and her friends are hot and that although she isnt going to have sex with him, her old boyfriend is there and maybe she wants him just a little bit jealous. just a little. - You may find out that if you bang another woman everything will be cool until her H wants to bang K and she says no. I just mean, people are weirder than you think you know? Seeing ugly people naked is out of the question and riskier over 40 . Make sure. Will do, thanks. I'm gonna have a long talk with K about it, get all the info I can, and run a few scenarios by her. One thing I want to be sure of is... if I want to leave, she'll come with me no questions asked. I've seen lots of overweight, naked, old men at my gym. I'm resistant to that now. Old, overweight naked women? Maybe not so much. Thank you for all the amazing advice. I feel more prepared about this now.
JustJoe Posted March 26, 2010 Posted March 26, 2010 I suspect we hang in different circles Joe.I'm sure that you are right,2sure. You Apparently hang with high-class, wealthy, "responsible ", cultured, sex partners, who don't sweat, or expel body fluids and are so nice, while I apparently hang with trailer trash. LOL I wasn't aware that rich folks orgies were better than us working class types.
JustJoe Posted March 26, 2010 Posted March 26, 2010 (edited) JK, 2sure, but seriously, the whole idea of a "genteel", sex orgy is really ridiculous. And sounds a little Yuppiesh to me. I've never heard that money makes your sweat stink less. LOL Edited March 26, 2010 by JustJoe
CarrieT Posted March 26, 2010 Posted March 26, 2010 I'm sure that you are right,2sure. You Apparently hang with high-class, wealthy, "responsible ", cultured, sex partners, who don't sweat, or expel body fluids and are so nice, while I apparently hang with trailer trash. LOL I wasn't aware that rich folks orgies were better than us working class types. This one makes me laugh. :lmao: The last sex party I attended included some hoity-toity, disgustingly rich elite (several people HAD arrived by private jet). The guy who brought me is a world-famous winery owner. And you know what? It was no different than that which I had attended with the po' folk except that the locale was a bit nicer and the Champagne and caviar served was damn fine. If you have never seen the movie, Sexy Beast, I recommend it. There is a short scene that takes place during a sex party and some of the elder, rich dudes are sitting around just talking while others are going at it. It is NOT like the sex party in Eyes Wide Shut... Trust me, when you get a bunch of naked people together -- even those that are physically fit OR well off -- are not necessarily more interesting to be around and exchange bodily fluids with!
2sure Posted March 26, 2010 Posted March 26, 2010 You know, taking the comment that the people I associate with dont do drugs or drink much ...and turning the words into genteel, rich, hoity-toity ...whatever....is just....too stupid to defend.
JustJoe Posted March 26, 2010 Posted March 26, 2010 Exactly, Carrie! At this one party, most of the people there were professional people (doctors, Lawyers, etc), many were in good shape, and most were at least buzzed, but I went with two Ladies in their forties and we had a GREAT time!!
sxyNYCcpl Posted March 26, 2010 Posted March 26, 2010 rampant drug and alcohol abuse, and possible violence, not to mention possible legal problems. If this doesn't bother you, go for it. Huh? There's a club in Manhattan that we go to frequently, they haven't had a single fight in the 20 years they've been in business, and while I have seen a verbal fight or two, in all the clubs and all the parties we've ever been to, have never seen any physical violence at all, despite the alcohol flowing freely. And what legal problems? I think you're assuming facts that are not in evidence.
JustJoe Posted March 26, 2010 Posted March 26, 2010 NY, I calls em like I sees em. I had to persuade one man to leave a party, because when it got down to crunch-time he wasn't willing to see his wife with another man, and became violent. My experiences aren't yours.
JustJoe Posted March 26, 2010 Posted March 26, 2010 You know, taking the comment that the people I associate with dont do drugs or drink much ...and turning the words into genteel, rich, hoity-toity ...whatever....is just....too stupid to defend.2sure, if you noticed, on the next post, I said that I was Just kidding. Where's your sense of humor? If the sight of a large number of middle-aged, grunting, sweating, naked people isn't funny, what is?:D
sxyNYCcpl Posted March 26, 2010 Posted March 26, 2010 Wow, I certainly hope that doesn't happen too often to you. Then again, we tend to go to hardcore swinger clubs and parties where there is guestlist screening, and folks most certainly don't get in not knowing what they're getting into, perhaps that tends to help. We did manage to go to a club one time where we were the youngest in the room by about 25 years, that was an interesting experience. Needless to say, we don't go to that club anymore.
JustJoe Posted March 26, 2010 Posted March 26, 2010 NY, I gave this type of thing up, a few years ago. IDK about guestlist screening, but I DO know that people are unpredictable.
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