Lucky555 Posted March 20, 2010 Posted March 20, 2010 Um..lets just say I dont think i will be trying to date people i have met online again from a certain dating site. WEIRDO people. The guy asked me if i wanted to go to his place to see his dogs...(UH WHAT? ) On a first date? hahaha does he think im stupid. I was kind and I now will say i met someone else and I hope things work out for him. its the nicest way to ditch the guy. back to dating again.
Bejita463 Posted March 20, 2010 Posted March 20, 2010 Creeps exist everywhere. People are people, regardless of where you meet them.
Author Lucky555 Posted March 20, 2010 Author Posted March 20, 2010 Creeps exist everywhere. People are people, regardless of where you meet them. the funny part is, he kept saying over and over that he was not a weirdo ect. However, i think he was trying to brain wash me lol
DarkLonelyTree Posted March 20, 2010 Posted March 20, 2010 Well, What can I say, I am very "big jerk", I even afraid to meet somebody from virtual World.
Bejita463 Posted March 20, 2010 Posted March 20, 2010 the funny part is, he kept saying over and over that he was not a weirdo ect. However, i think he was trying to brain wash me lol I automatically become suspicious when someone feels the need to inform me of such things. "I'm not weird" or "I'm drama free" or "I would NEVER cheat on my partner" all make me wonder what exactly the real deal is, because I tend to assume people say what they are, not what they are not.
Author Lucky555 Posted March 20, 2010 Author Posted March 20, 2010 (edited) I automatically become suspicious when someone feels the need to inform me of such things. "I'm not weird" or "I'm drama free" or "I would NEVER cheat on my partner" all make me wonder what exactly the real deal is, because I tend to assume people say what they are, not what they are not. i just texted him saying that i dont feel the connection ect. i wished him the best. I dont want to lead the guy on and i dont want to be bothered by him. Oh ya i agree he seemed to be sending the vibe. He also didn't handle my response well. I thought people would be happier not being led on when someone is not interested. oh well its rejection but seriously the chemistry wasnt there! Edited March 20, 2010 by Lucky555
Author Lucky555 Posted March 21, 2010 Author Posted March 21, 2010 You didn't do the proper vetting haha Hahaha. the guy called me after i told him i didnt feel the connection. He wanted to get me to date him. Why could he just not take no for an answer!!!!! I said i didnt feel like we connected! Wow how does that not register.
Lakeside_runner Posted March 21, 2010 Posted March 21, 2010 Hahaha. the guy called me after i told him i didnt feel the connection. He wanted to get me to date him. Why could he just not take no for an answer!!!!! I said i didnt feel like we connected! Wow how does that not register. ...and now you're being just plain simply mean... Maybe he hasn't been on a date for a long time or he's very insecure etc. move on...
Author Lucky555 Posted March 21, 2010 Author Posted March 21, 2010 ...and now you're being just plain simply mean... Maybe he hasn't been on a date for a long time or he's very insecure etc. move on... I was on the phone for like 8 minutes explaining myself. Why do i need to explain why i dont feel a connection. He kept trying to tell me I am going to regret it and that i never gave it a chance. I already said i didnt feel a connection after the first three minutes. Its like he was trying to pressure me into saying i will date him again. Not cool. This is just being clingy after a first date. I think he was being mean by doing this stuff. I was nice and this is what always happens to me
Lakeside_runner Posted March 21, 2010 Posted March 21, 2010 I was on the phone for like 8 minutes explaining myself. Why do i need to explain why i dont feel a connection. He kept trying to tell me I am going to regret it and that i never gave it a chance. I already said i didnt feel a connection after the first three minutes. Its like he was trying to pressure me into saying i will date him again. Not cool. This is just being clingy after a first date. I think he was being mean by doing this stuff. I was nice and this is what always happens to me Sure, he shouldn't have tried to pressure you into anything, least telling you that you will regret never giving him a chance - this is clearly too much and you're absolutely right for being upset with it. While reading your previous posts you came across to me as someone who's very stuck up and overly self-confident, making fun of someone who's very insecure and I didn't like it... My bet - for that I apologize
Author Lucky555 Posted March 21, 2010 Author Posted March 21, 2010 Sure, he shouldn't have tried to pressure you into anything, least telling you that you will regret never giving him a chance - this is clearly too much and you're absolutely right for being upset with it. While reading your previous posts you came across to me as someone who's very stuck up and overly self-confident, making fun of someone who's very insecure and I didn't like it... My bet - for that I apologize forgiven. its probably because i didnt put enough info in the post.
marsle85 Posted March 21, 2010 Posted March 21, 2010 Do you want to come over and see my dogs? Atleast he could say "come over and let me cook for you!" bahahha;)
Johnny M Posted March 21, 2010 Posted March 21, 2010 the funny part is, he kept saying over and over that he was not a weirdo ect. However, i think he was trying to brain wash me lol Any guy who keeps saying that he's not a weirdo is inevitably lying. Kind of like women who say they don't play head games (immediate red flag) or that they they normally don't do "that kind of thing" (said after sleeping with you on the first date).
boogieboy Posted March 21, 2010 Posted March 21, 2010 Guys like that cnt be told nice lies to spare your guilt. You have to tell him the real deal. 1.) He creeped you out by inviting you to see his dogs 2.) he kept saying he wasnt weird, which is weird 3.) he kept pestering you. Thats not mean, its the truth, why is that so hard to say to someone that you will never see again?
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