McGrupp Posted March 19, 2010 Posted March 19, 2010 so after spending last night at another beautiful ladies house, i came to work. went on the old fbook...and saw a girl i went to HS with. now when i first got dumped i saw this girl at a local bar. since at the times i was dishing my guts out to everyone she listened then explained how she just dumped her bf of 5 years... so anyway saw her pic and shes got a new bf. and not that this relates anyway to me and my ex (maybe she always has to be in a relationship, maybe he was always there...have no idea) but this made me unblock my ex and check her fbook, which is super private so all i can see is the 1 pic. and theres no dude in it or anything. its just lame. i miss my best friend; her. i know now there is not "the one" but still im upset at how it all went down and i know i should wait for her to contact me... but i want to make one last attempt or something. im in a good place and sure i could handle the rejection again. i just feel like....no regrets?
twinklecat Posted March 19, 2010 Posted March 19, 2010 Hey McG, don't be so hard on yourself! We all have bad times, hell this week has just been rubbish for me. Stay strong, you've been NC a long time now, all contacting will do is hurt you more, stick with NC and knowing you have self control, it will eventually get better
tylerdurden Posted March 19, 2010 Posted March 19, 2010 I feel you brother,I ve been 3 days pure NC,no calls , no texts , no fbook, no nothing... I removed her from my friend list, but her profile is set as public, and I dont have the strenght to block her, however, I ve got a lot of goodwill for not looking at her page.. The best way to quit smoking is to stop with a pack of cigarettes in your pocket, this can apply here,It takes a lot of strenght but We will make it somehow. How long have you been NC? I wouldnt do it If I were you, the fact that you are posting here makes you looks like you are unsure.. Unblock her and wait for her to write to you.. Whatever you do let us know the outcome. We are here!
Author McGrupp Posted March 19, 2010 Author Posted March 19, 2010 jeez...idk how long ive been NC. talked to her New years day..then a quick email sometimes in January..so like 60 + days? also 40 b4 nye day...and 25 b4 that i think... idk..i just miss her a lot, thinking she was a good one.
alphamale Posted March 19, 2010 Posted March 19, 2010 i just feel like....no regrets? if there were "no regrets" you wouldn't have posted this
Art_Critic Posted March 19, 2010 Posted March 19, 2010 Don't contact her dude.. Just because she doesn't have a guy in her FB profile pic doesn't mean she isn't dating like you are... My wife doesn't has a picture of me on her FB pic.. I'm in her albums though.. The first FB picture is just to tell people who they are not to say who they are banging... You really should try concentrating on the dating more and less on your EX.. You are getting over her, just give yourself more time...
Author McGrupp Posted March 19, 2010 Author Posted March 19, 2010 no i mean no regrets as far as trying to go get her! btw i just read a blog someone wrote about something i did a couple of months ago that i totally forgot i did (if that makes any sense). im pretty kick ass
Art_Critic Posted March 19, 2010 Posted March 19, 2010 i wish i knew more about FB You could make it all about stories and pictures of your past conquests I don't have a FB Alpha.. but occasionally my wife and I will use her account to FB stalk old friends or some of my own family who she is FB friends with...
GrayClouds Posted March 19, 2010 Posted March 19, 2010 I think there is a 33% chance that a facy-facebook profile pic with no other in it means either: They are single Have a guy but not in the picture Screwing more then one guy 66% chance of bad news. Mc you going to her says you are interested in her. If she was interested in you she be coming to you. Here make a post on this thread: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t224845/ And then re-read this: So you want a second chance?
Ilovecake Posted March 19, 2010 Posted March 19, 2010 McG you are a glutton for punishment. Stop stalking your ex already, it's getting beyond creepy.
alphamale Posted March 19, 2010 Posted March 19, 2010 McG you are a glutton for punishment. Stop stalking your ex already, it's getting beyond creepy. we reached creepy a couple months ago
alphamale Posted March 19, 2010 Posted March 19, 2010 Send her flowers! black roses with really big thorns?
Author McGrupp Posted March 19, 2010 Author Posted March 19, 2010 we reached creepy a couple months ago if burning my name in her lawn is creepy, i dont want to be right
mickleb Posted March 19, 2010 Posted March 19, 2010 You learn a lesson. You unlearn a lesson. You feel stupid. Because you chose to do it. Do what you like, MG. Just remember who is in control. x
LovelyDaze Posted March 20, 2010 Posted March 20, 2010 Oh yes, I remember something about sending flowers! Hey, McGrupp. You know I've been proud of your progress in the past. You can't do those things to yourself. Don't look at FB anything when it comes to her...not even friends of her friends. Always remember, if she was so great, she wouldn't have hurt you.
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