Mixin6 Posted March 19, 2010 Posted March 19, 2010 (edited) Girl I dated briefly almost 5 years ago found a mutual friend on Facebook. she added him as a friend and told him she'd be in town in a few months. Whatever. OK. Three weeks later I posted a video on his wall that I wanted him to see. The next day she posts on his wall that she'll be in town in a few months. The exact same thing she emailed him a few weeks earlier. I think it was meant for me to see that. Things she's done in the past few years: Contacted a friend and told him she'd be back in town soon. Went to the place where we met (work) and told friends she was gonna work there again. Called me "restricted" (*69) and hung up, repeatedly. She left me for another guy, fine. Hooked up with another guy and planned on getting married but that didn't happen. Who knows what else she's done since I last seen her. I've left the past in the past and intend on keeping it there. Don't plan on another go-around with her. My question is what's gonna happen if/when she shows up? She's good at using other people to try and get me to communicate with her and I haven't fallen for it in the past yet I feel that it's finally time to close the chapter on this one and talk to her if she asks to speak to me when she gets here. I'm not mad at her, nor do I hate her or seek some sort of revenge. I'd like to think we've both moved on. Kinda feel that I owe her a chance to speak to me if that's what she wants. Thoughts? Edited March 19, 2010 by Mixin6
ADF Posted March 19, 2010 Posted March 19, 2010 Thoughts? My thought is that despite your saying you want to leave the past in the past, you hope to get another chance to at least get in this woman's pants. I mean, if not, then what are you worried about? If you don't want to see her, don't. If she asks to see you, say no. It is very simple.
win Posted March 19, 2010 Posted March 19, 2010 My thought is that despite your saying you want to leave the past in the past, you hope to get another chance to at least get in this woman's pants. i couldnt agree than this! good point! we must clear our mind..and focus to what we'd determined!.
Author Mixin6 Posted March 21, 2010 Author Posted March 21, 2010 Eh. I think I know what her "plan" is. Hop in the sack with me and all will be forgiven. Yeah right. It don't work that way with me. What I'm trying to say is that the opportunity to hit that is still there but I'm not even there right now. I'd be more interesed in hearing what she has to say as opposed to another roll in the sack.
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