HLP234 Posted March 19, 2010 Posted March 19, 2010 Well Its been quiet some time since I posted on here. I figured if I was to heal myself, after my ex left me, I would have to get off this website and just go do other things. Not that this place was bad or anything, its an awesome site and it helps a lot. Its been about 4 months since we broke up, to make the long story short, she moved here for school while we were together, told me she was confused and needed time to herself, then went home for vacation. I found out through the internet she started dating that other guy right after new years. Never, said anything to me as a last wording..AND we have not been in contact for the whole time, 4 months to be exact. My questions is, even though I have been busy with work, school, going out with new friends, why does it still bother me so much? I figure that amount of time would help me get over it. Heck, I have a friend who dated a girl for 5 years, they broke up not too long ago and he is completely over her, and he doesn't have anyone else either now. So how come its taking me longer? I've been going out a lot, trying to meet other people, haven't gotten anywhere with other women, not that I want to right now, but somehow this still hurts and it sucks.
bubbles5 Posted March 19, 2010 Posted March 19, 2010 Its simple logic that you are thinking too much abt your ex , n she is moving on bcos she might be over with your feelings.I think either u talk to her casually and see if she still feels for you or else I would say stop thinking and focusing too much on her. And things that hapened to your frnd is not necessarily repeated with you.Your freind moved on becos once feelings die you move on easily.Once you understand that opposite person or your ex doesnt worth you at all you move on. Once you understand that you r just making fool out of self.I would suggest either u start dating or talk to your ex casually not abt how she is feeling justlike frnd,
N.Colony Posted March 19, 2010 Posted March 19, 2010 Stop thinking about her. Believe you can do better than her, and you probably can. Get into the gym, lift some weights, run, eat healthy and get in great shape. Work hard and achieve. Your goal: the next time she sees you she'll realize you are having so much fun in life and doing well for yourself. Don't contact her. Let her contact you, and don't even think about her contacting you.
Author HLP234 Posted March 20, 2010 Author Posted March 20, 2010 I have been keeping myself as busy as I can be with work, school. I don't ever expect to talk to her again, I mean she's never even contacted me since. I don't plan on contacting her either, before all this happened I heard she had a new phone and I wasn't told of the new number so I guess its better off that way. I've been putting my application in to become an Officer in the Navy so that has been taking up a lot of my time. Its just that I don't think of her like I used to, it just randomly happens without me being conscious about it, that is what I hate.
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