confused and broken Posted March 19, 2010 Posted March 19, 2010 My last post was about hanging out with a guy as friends, and how it didn't feel comfortable because I knew he also had a crush on me This is kind of pathetic But for some reason I thought I "should" hang out with him even though I am not attracted to him because there is so much pressure on me not to be single (ie. my friend) and I guess Im afraid to be alone so I thought it would be better to hang with someone I don't really like than be alone Actually I think he's kinda lame for going through my friend instead of me directly Anyways I figured it out I felt so much anxiety and so sick because I don't want to hang out with him And I can safely say I would rather be alone Does that make sense?
GrayClouds Posted March 19, 2010 Posted March 19, 2010 Not only does it make sense it takes courage to get yourself to that point. It is kinder to the other person and yourself. It is also called growing up, many people never do, be proud of yourself.
Author confused and broken Posted March 19, 2010 Author Posted March 19, 2010 Not only does it make sense it takes courage to get yourself to that point. It is kinder to the other person and yourself. It is also called growing up, many people never do, be proud of yourself. Now here is the question He has been phoning and I just want to ignore and say nothing to him until he disappears, but not sure if that is the grown up respectful thing to do... Should I let him know somehow besides silence and if so how??
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