branching butterfly Posted March 18, 2010 Posted March 18, 2010 we all have the controversial debate on the boy that i like who doesn't like me and i know we had our disagreements and all but this time i feel like he's really crossing the line and invading my space. a few days ago i was at the gym that I invited him too when we were friends and i bumped into him there. i did the grown up thing and ignored him. however we happened to walk passed each other a few times and later on i saw him talking to some girls. it got me pissed off because he was flirting with them to the gym THAT I invited him too and knowing full well i go there, he goes and flirts with the other gym participants! like how messed up is that? i feel he did that to get under my skin and it really pissed him off because i think he should be more respectful when he's going to do that at a place that i invited him to before and knowing that i go there often. now i have to worry about him flirting or getting with some ladies RIGHT IN FRONT of my face. then he has the audacity to show up at my house party just because he was invited by another friend of mine and brings a girl with him! i swear, this guy is stepping on my toes and he better not be shocked if i give him a tongue lashing and let him know what time it is. i bet you people still think he isn't a jerk though right?
Not the love ace Posted March 21, 2010 Posted March 21, 2010 I'm laughing at the fact that there's 58 views and no one is even bothering to reply because I'm sure you can guess what the answer is going to be, and its not going to be positive for you. Heehee, anyway, good luck living in fantasy land and next time call us for a house warming.
TaraMaiden Posted March 21, 2010 Posted March 21, 2010 i bet you people still think he isn't a jerk though right? I bet we don't..... The phrase "get over yourself" springs to mind......
ADF Posted March 21, 2010 Posted March 21, 2010 Ignoring people is never the "adult" thing to do. Not ever. That is called "stonewalling," and at every level of society, it is considered an expression of utter contempt. In polite society, stonewalling somebody is called snubbing, and is considered unspeakably rude. In less-than-polite society--let's say in a prison yard--that kind of behavior can get someone killed. I don't know where people get the idea ignoring someone is a smart thing to do. Frankly, I think the people who do that usually just want to make things easy on themselves. But a great way to turn a normal guy into a creepy stalker is to stonewall him.
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