Don'tWannabeAWannabe Posted March 18, 2010 Posted March 18, 2010 Seriously, I understand that girls get frustrated when they go to the club and have a bunch of drunk slobs hitting on them and touching them and so on. But it continuously amazes me how a lot of girls take out that hostility and frustration on EVERY guy who's trying to meet her, even if he's NOT a drunk slob and is being polite and genuinely interested in getting to know her. If you encounter a girl who's being rude, snotty, dismissive or just plain hostile (even though you're trying to be genuinely friendly and not trying to holler at her or anything) what's the best way to respond? I'm sure a lot of you are gonna say "just ignore it" or "walk away" but when I do, I still feel humiliated they acted that way towards me. Here's one I've thought of. "Hey, I'm sorry some drunk slob tried to grab your ass earlier tonight, but I'm not a drunk or a slob, so don't take it out on me, got it?"
Author Don'tWannabeAWannabe Posted March 18, 2010 Author Posted March 18, 2010 Respond with good humour! Don't be aggresive back, that is pathetic. I am one of those snobs you are constantly bitching about, and let me tell you - most of the time it's just an act to find a guy with the balls to take me on. I love it when I am rude to a guy and he responds with a joke or laughs, Wow, 'zat make you feel good about yourself?
SincereOnlineGuy Posted March 19, 2010 Posted March 19, 2010 I'm sure a lot of you are gonna say "just ignore it" or "walk away" but when I do' date=' I still feel humiliated they acted that way towards me. [/quote'] Humiliated??? Were you performing for an audience? If you have something to say to someone, approach and get their attention and SAY IT. If you're foolish enough (or drunk enough) to try to serve up an Academy Award performance in front of a cast of thousands, then you probably deserve to be "humiliated". IF, however, you are in a one-to-one discussion with any other human being on the planet, just how "humiliated" can you get? (If it's just you and your 4th grade teacher in the classroom, with nobody else around, and he/she makes you stand in the corner with the "dunce" cap on, just where is the "humiliation" in that when there is no 3rd party audience?)
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