Name something you Wont miss from you ex?

[tylerdurden]

Ok I might be restarting an old thread, but I think its a good idea and will definitely help us with the coping..

Ok.....So here I start:

 

I wont miss:-her selfishness

- her lack of tact

-she was hearing what she wanted to hear

-she was reading what she wanted to read

-her lack of communication

-No involvement whatsoever in the Relationship

 

 

Maybe more to come..

OK your turn guys...

 

[sally4sara]

He's been an ex for many years now, but

 

-the sex

-always being broke because of his mess ups with altering substances

-being so stressed and upset that I'd puke stomach acid

-his crappy eating and drinking habits

-the smell of beer farts and bear sweat in my bed

-sports on TV every night and all weekend

-calling the hospitals and police depts when his quick trips to the (wherever) became coming home at 5:30 am stinking drunk and/or high

-his screaming yap

[LovelyDaze]

He's been an ex for many years now, but

 

-the sex

-always being broke because of his mess ups with altering substances

-being so stressed and upset that I'd puke stomach acid

-his crappy eating and drinking habits

-the smell of beer farts and bear sweat in my bed

-sports on TV every night and all weekend

-calling the hospitals and police depts when his quick trips to the (wherever) became coming home at 5:30 am stinking drunk and/or high

-his screaming yap

 

*His indecisiveness(Wherever you want to go eat is fine,hun)

*Demon-from-hell farts (Almost blew holes in the bed)

*Nerdy jokes that made no one (including friends) laugh

*Oh and him whistling down the street, tripping over a walk and landing on a naked woman...all by accident, of course.

[tylerdurden]

*

*Demon-from-hell farts (Almost blew holes in the bed)

 

Thats so funny!

[Woggle]

Blood and vomit on the furniture after her benders

Her violent rages

Feeling I can do nothing right in her eyes

Being blamed for those benders

[Rearden Metal]

- Her jealousy, overwhelmingly totally made up.

- Her laziness

- Her self deprecating (not in a funny way) attitude, especially about her weight.

- Her total lack of any ability to critique herself without either A. being unreasonably terrible to herself or B. being unreasonably overconfident about herself.

- Her inability to tell the truth about things that were clearly bull****.

- Her inability to believe that the bull**** she made up about me was clearly bull****.

 

I could go on and on all night.

[jerrytodd]

no trust

no spirit

lacks empathy/kindness

little personal appreciation of me

poor communication

no friends

no self respect

not willing to try stuff

angry

dumb tv and other media

games playing

floppy t*ts

[Rearden Metal]

no trust

no spirit

lacks empathy/kindness

little personal appreciation of me

poor communication

no friends

no self respect

not willing to try stuff

angry

dumb tv and other media

games playing

floppy t*ts

 

 

Oh, we dated the same girl. 'Cept mine had amazing tits

[jerrytodd]

Oh, we dated the same girl. 'Cept mine had amazing tits

 

Not fair.

 

If we are playing that game mine was bi-sexual!!

[brokenH]

-not having things go her way

-her deception

-driving her everywhere since she had no car (gas is expensive)

-no effort in the relationship

-not being able to find her on friday nights

 

if i remember more ill add them =)

[LovelyDaze]

Rearden Metal and Jerrytodd....LMAO!!

 

Oh, I should add his lack of maturity. He was 30 but acted 16.

 

Probably why he ran off with an 18 year old who acted like a 14 year old.

Go figure.

[threebyfate]

I don't have much if anything, to complain about my last ex. He's a pretty cool guy and we're still friends. Even my hubby likes him.

 

The one main reason why it was never going to happen for us, was that his career took him all over, so either I had to follow him around, living a lifestyle I didn't enjoy, or we'd be in a part-time LDR, which also isn't my idea of fun.

 

So I guess, his lifestyle, is something I most def. don't miss.

[jerrytodd]

I got more:

 

• sex at home with her exH while we were together
  
• letting guys grab her t*ts at bars
  
• going on line with a web cam and masturbating for a strange couple
  
• lying about her girl affairs
  
• her STD that she didnt tell me about
  

 

Umm, that isnt normal, right??? Please confirm.

[brokenH]

I got more:

 

• sex at home with her exH while we were together
  
• letting guys grab her t*ts at bars
  
• going on line with a web cam and masturbating for a strange couple
  
• lying about her girl affairs
  
• her STD that she didnt tell me about
  

 

Umm, that isnt normal, right??? Please confirm.

 

not normal!!

[Sassygirl2]

What I don't miss about him:

 

- Yes - the farting and blaming it on the dog!

- Speaking spanish with his family and I have no idea what they're

talking about - it took "too much effort" to tell me what they were

saying....made me feel unimportant

- Not clipping his toenails until they were really long....(I know, gross)

- Ruining a perfectly good day because he was pissed off at his kids and

took it out on me...his temper

- Not being there for me when I had a stressful day...usually played

"Devil's Advocate" and tried to get me more upset!

- His selfishness...

[LovelyDaze]

I got more:

 

• sex at home with her exH while we were together
  
• letting guys grab her t*ts at bars
  
• going on line with a web cam and masturbating for a strange couple
  
• lying about her girl affairs
  
• her STD that she didnt tell me about
  

 

Umm, that isnt normal, right??? Please confirm.

 

All sad but #3????

 

wow.Wow! WOW!!??! Seriously awful.

[WiseOne1]

Theres only 1 thing that I won't miss about my ex gf..

 

Her sucide attempts and threats...everytime her life wouldn't be going great or she wouldn't get her way, she wanted to commit sucide, and thats very hurting when you love someone.

 

Since we were best friends for 5 years before we started dating, she did it with her past Bf's also, but they did not care, they were to busy dating other girls while with her, after we broke up she did it with her new bf, and he did not care, he would still only call her every 3 weeks.

 

She wasn't doing it for attention though, she really would take alot of sleeping pills or slit her wrist, but what really hurt me, was she finally got with this new dude...and guess what she said...."I don't do that anymore, because he's what im living for"...

 

This drove me Nova, I hated her since this day, and I went full NC and never talked to her again!

[DenverBachelor]

Let's see. What do I miss?

 

The way she arched her body during sex -- like a mixture of the goddess of love and the goddess of war.

 

The way she would stroke my face before we fell asleep. How she would whisper into my ear all the things a man loves to hear while stroking her finger up my sides.

 

The way she would randomly pull out my thingie and go happy while in the car.

 

The way she looked at me while smiling and telling me how wonderful I made her feel.

 

 

Oh oh oh .... sorry ... this isn't a fictional thread?'

[tylerdurden]

I got a few more:everytime we went out , she would love to have all the attention

-everything had to go her way,

[Lucy_b]

Lack of communication.

Lack of common sense.

Lack of commitment.

Doing things there way.

Doing all the traveling.

Listening to all the issues.

Working things out.

Being blamed for things they did.

Selfishness.

Being with a jerk.

Cooking.

Cleaning up after them.

Arguments.

There wandering eye.

Ego.

Lack of intimacy.

Lies.

Doing things for her so she was meant to be doing could be else where or working.

Giving back rubs.

Phone calls and text messages.

Oh yeah and most times never receiving after whoopee cause she was then to tired.

 

Many many things.

Edited March 18, 2010 by Lucy_b

[jerrytodd]

So when we broke up I asked for one thing. Please do not date any of my friends. There was only one that we really knew in common, my one close friend in Alberta.

 

Umm, do I have to tell you the rest???

[Weird]

-selfishness

-the inability to communicate well

-holding things in making me not have a clue until later on when she's already decided it is 'how it is" and refuses to see/allow change.

[jerrytodd]

Lovelydaze - yeah, I was on a business trip and she was online trying to find a girl partner and met this couple who would only play as a couple. So they chatted, the other couple started fooling around on their webcam and wanted her to watch. Then my ex GF took her top off for them then more, etc.

 

So she sent me an email and I went WTF?? So I talked to her a couple of days later and she said "I dont really want to talk about it, I am not comfortable with what I did' which was exactly what happened after her first girl-girl experience during our relationship.

 

I dont know at all how someone lives their life that way - "Just do it" is a Nike slogan, not a way to live a life if, after the fact, you seem to regret so many things you do.

 

Nowomannocry - yup, almost certainly. And I just dont care now.

[murphomatic]

Lots of things I won't miss at all ... Here is a summary list:

 

Her ...

... rampant alcohol/drug abuse.

... constant unfounded jealousy and suspicion.

... being her chauffer as she lost her license permanently after so many DUIs.

... caustic, b!tch attitude and frequent screaming at me for nothing.

... constant show of disappointment in me for not jumping at her every whim.

... total lack of respect for me, my time, job, personal-space, or individuality.

... flirting with other guys especially when she got plowed.

... getting sick in the middle of sex and passing out from drinking too much

... total reliance on me to help her with her schoolwork because she was too drunk to care.

... resistance to see a doctor when she started having serious physical issues from drinking.

... unabashed determination to drink in my car even after I'd told her not to.

... destroying property through drunken stupidity that I'd inevitably pay for whenever we went on nice trips.

... stupid, naive attitude that the world (or her boyfriend) owes her a living.

... expectations of me to pick up the bill for everything, all the time.

... the way she looked in the end with her clothes off (she was once gorgeous, but the booze quickly ruined that).

... constant degrading b!tchy commentary and attitude about her ex in front of their son.

... dependence on me to clean up the mess she made out of her own life.

 

Sheesh..

[ditched]

her demanding flowers "at least once a month"