TheStranger Posted March 17, 2010 Posted March 17, 2010 So, a week ago the ex texted me, I told her I didn't want to be friends and that she should leave me alone, she then got nasty bragging about her new boyfriend making her happy etc, then I said I wont text her again, she said ok. Then today early hours, she texted me, asking if I was ok. I didn't text back until this afternoon as a part of me wondered why exactly after me telling her not to, is she texting me? Does she miss me, wants to give it another go? Any ideas?
mrkleen Posted March 17, 2010 Posted March 17, 2010 She is selfish and wants you to tell her either: a) you are ok - so she can feel better about herself or b) that you are thinking of her - so she can feel better about herself. Basically it is REALLY selfish behavior...ignore her.
TaraMaiden Posted March 17, 2010 Posted March 17, 2010 It's known as yanking your chain, throwing you breadcrumbs, and generally toying with you. Because she thinks she can. The less you respond, the more it will irritate her, get under her skin, p155 her off and generally make her realise that she simply is not as important or vital to your existence as she believed she was. Which is absolutely right. Why should she be? She's an ex, right? Continue ignoring. She's contacting you for her benefit, not yours. Deny her that satisfaction.
OOReeee Posted March 17, 2010 Posted March 17, 2010 I-G-N-O-R-E The first reply pretty much sums it up. She just uses you to feel better about herself. Maybe she feels guilty that she made someone feel so hurt. bottom line: you don't deserve it, she's selfish and playing with you. Ignore, move on.
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