Abril Posted March 17, 2010 Posted March 17, 2010 What he want to say with this? listen to me right now we are not in a relation so i dont have any commitmen with you, after i finish my studies im gonna get back my life and many things can change between us, i will have time to be myself, and i hope meet you again, i dont want forget about you
mrkleen Posted March 17, 2010 Posted March 17, 2010 If you stick around after that.....he knows you are on the hook and will basically be his chick on the side. You dont need to be anyone's second best or back up. MOVE ON.
OOReeee Posted March 17, 2010 Posted March 17, 2010 if you don't mind me asking, what's the background to the story?
Author Abril Posted March 17, 2010 Author Posted March 17, 2010 well here comes the history my ex boyfriend is saudi studding a post grade in Canada, we had a Beautiful relation one year, was amazing year when I came back to my country he came and meet my family, we matched perfect, he is divorced and just recently he get the papers, we talked about a future together but in january he dump me without any reason, after he say he feel stressed and overwhelmed because he have to finish his studies and he don't have time to follow his heart and to be himself, yesterday we talked and we I asked him why he dumped me, and he didn't respond he just said: listen we are not in a relationship we don't have now any commitment, but after I finish in may I will get my life back and many things can change between us, I hope see you Again and I don't want forget about you, because you are special to me and you are also my best friend...and he added and im not cheating you with any other women im not having other relationship so now I understand I i pushed him, because I'm feel sad and broken heart and he is stressed , should I apologize to him or just don't say nothing and wait for the future ? he finish on may GIVE ME A GOOD ADVICE
LovelyDaze Posted March 17, 2010 Posted March 17, 2010 If you stick around after that.....he knows you are on the hook and will basically be his chick on the side. You dont need to be anyone's second best or back up. MOVE ON. What mrkleen said WAS good advice right there. No one who truly cares would drop you and then have the audacity to ask you to wait around for them "in case" they decide to get back together with you on their own terms. Love is mutual. It's about respect, compromise and the decency to be sensitive to the other's feelings especially when it comes to relationship trouble. He didn't take time to even lie, cheat, or anything. He just left you. No, you don't wait around until May. You don't wait around at all. Life is TOO short to be someone's backup plan. Be your own woman and take personal time to find out what kind of relationship you feel you deserve. If you're smart, you'll go NC on him. If he is meant to be, he will find you again and insist that you two should talk over the problems that killed the relationship and kick-ass hard at trying again.
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