wellanydaynow Posted March 17, 2010 Posted March 17, 2010 Kids mother spending TOO much time on Facebook...every spare moment... Is there a way in FB to carry on private private stuff?
GorillaTheater Posted March 17, 2010 Posted March 17, 2010 Not much to go on here, so I read the back story. I'm guessing that you're still with your wife who had the online (at a minimum) affair. You found out what happened once with a keylogger, can you do that again? I'm not too FB savvy, but yeah, private messages are no problem. I'm still wrapping my head around "nipple clamps". I don't know man, we all have our own limits and boundaries, but I think mine would have permanently crossed 2 or 3 years ago. Life's too short.
Hazyhead Posted March 17, 2010 Posted March 17, 2010 You can also IM, which deletes itself as soon as you close it.
stuckinoz Posted March 17, 2010 Posted March 17, 2010 Kids mother spending TOO much time on Facebook...every spare moment... Is there a way in FB to carry on private private stuff? 2 things: 1. "Kids Mother"??? Is this woman your wife or just some chick that stays at your house & has a kid? 2. The FACEBOOK craze wears off (well it has in most people I know) They start off on the website & can't get enough of it. It's a 24/7 thing. Then it gets boring & they begin to taper off. Maybe give her some time to get this new website out of her system. And, yes, you can carry on private conversations Instant Message & Email with people. Even people that aren't on your friends list. (well you can email them, but I don't think you can Instant Message them)
JaneInVegas Posted March 17, 2010 Posted March 17, 2010 I'm a big fan of keyloggers. Nothing online is private when you have one installed. If I had found out my ex had been doing something online continuously when my daughter was a toddler, I would have slapped a keylogger on that computer faster than anything. There are people here who scream about privacy rights and are anti-keyloggers. But in your case there are children involved, and if she truly is glued to the computer all day, you need evidence to be able to actively DO something about it. If you don't know much about them and want some help, let me know. Glad to pass along a link or two and get you started. Regardless of what you decide, good luck to you ... you're going to need it.
seibert253 Posted March 18, 2010 Posted March 18, 2010 Keylogger will tell you everything you need to know. Many of them save screenshots. My FWW denied, lied, then denied some more until I showed her the printed out screenshots.
JaneInVegas Posted March 18, 2010 Posted March 18, 2010 Keylogger will tell you everything you need to know. Many of them save screenshots. My FWW denied, lied, then denied some more until I showed her the printed out screenshots. I freakin' hate all the denials, and endless streams of "You're crazy!" My keylogger has screenshots as well, but so far (knock on wood) I haven't had to use them yet. He's been a very, very good boy for quite awhile now.
Author wellanydaynow Posted March 18, 2010 Author Posted March 18, 2010 "Kids mother" I don't call her my wife anymore. We are little more than roomates. Anyway I cannot put a keylogger on her computer at work. I believe a lot of the BS and phone calls are going on there. She has a boss that is out most of the time. I have pretty much locked down all the stuff at home, even my Neighbors unsecured wireless router.
confusedinkansas Posted March 18, 2010 Posted March 18, 2010 "Kids mother" I don't call her my wife anymore. If you no longer consider her your wife, why are you trying to fix things? Why make both of you miserable. Just divorce her! What you're doing seems just as bad, IMO. You have no respect for her & she has none for you.
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