Thebob Posted March 17, 2010 Posted March 17, 2010 so I haven't seen my ex since August, and I haven't talked to her since January. I have been with 2 girls since then, but last night when I was sleeping I had a dream that I was having sex with her when her boyfriend was right on the side of me....I mean why the hell would I have a dream about her when I haven't seen her in so long, or talked to her for more than 20 sentences in 7 months? Do you think subconsciously my brain isn't completely over her? or what, because this is getting annoying. I mean I have looked at her facebook page but that is it, I might check it like 1nce every 3 weeks to a month just to see how she looks and such. But yea, does anyone else have dreams like this? Thebob
deux ex machina Posted March 18, 2010 Posted March 18, 2010 Yes, I have had dreams like that (even with the someone new right there and everything). It's odd, but really I think it's nothing more than our minds working through it all - getting it all settled.
spriggig Posted March 18, 2010 Posted March 18, 2010 One idea about dreams is that it's our mind's way of forgetting--sort of house-keeping for un-needed memories.
Author Thebob Posted March 21, 2010 Author Posted March 21, 2010 I hope so, cause dreaming of her is just annoying and unpleasant cause she treated me badly at the end of our 2 months relationship. So I was just curious to see why after 6-7 months of hardly talking to her why she is still popping up in my dreams. Kinda ridiculous in my opinion, she doesn't even look as good as she used to now. And the past 2 girls I been with were 7 to 8's outta 10's. So I have no reason to think of her at all, maybe it is cause that was the first girl that I had a serious emotional connection with. Thebob
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