Engadget Posted March 17, 2010 Posted March 17, 2010 And it was one of the stranger conversations I've ever had. She asked for my number online, so I gave it to her and she called almost right away which surprised me. Needless to say she brought up so much stuff from when we dated. I was young (under 18) and she was about 20 at the time. I got the distinct impression she wants to either give it another try, or have sex which was fairly obvious because she brought up all these times we did sexual things. Even funnier she told me we didn't have intercourse because of my age and she was afraid of going to jail. She was amazing at oral sex however, so I'm debating whether to hang out with her. Anyway it was just very odd how out of left field it was.
Author Engadget Posted March 17, 2010 Author Posted March 17, 2010 do yourself a favor and KEEP MOVING FORWARD. haha, why's that
Disintegration Posted March 17, 2010 Posted March 17, 2010 Wow after seven years? I'm surprised you still have your contact information from that long ago. You were of legal age 18 right? So intercourse would have been totally legal. So are you going to reconnect with her or has too much time elapsed?
Author Engadget Posted March 17, 2010 Author Posted March 17, 2010 Wow after seven years? I'm surprised you still have your contact information from that long ago. You were of legal age 18 right? So intercourse would have been totally legal. So are you going to reconnect with her or has too much time elapsed? Facebook, she's still friends with someone I know so she got in touch with me that way. No at the time I wasn't 18, I was 16-17. I may reconnect with her, not dating her for sure but we will see how it goes.
mrkleen Posted March 17, 2010 Posted March 17, 2010 haha, why's that just my philosophy.....I never go backwards if I can help it. clearly you are curious and going to pursue it, so I am not sure why you even asked.
Crazy Magnet Posted March 17, 2010 Posted March 17, 2010 Lol I had to laugh, I can't tell you how many times this has happened to me. I swear every last guy I've ever dated for a significant period somehow finds me years later and calls. It's so weird. Glad to know this kind of bizarro stuff happens to other people too. I always say thanks but no thanks and go on with life.
Chrome Barracuda Posted March 17, 2010 Posted March 17, 2010 Well what do you want??? Now your both consenting adults you can make your own choices. If it's about sex, let it be about sex. wear protection, and be safe. The thing is I never contact any of my exes and they know better than to EVER call me. because every relationship, I had ended on seriously bad terms. And ive had no reason to be around anyone who treated me like garbage. But you are your OWN adult, and if the relationship ended on good terms and your both cool about see, go see what she wants. It might be bad, it might be good.
make me believe Posted March 17, 2010 Posted March 17, 2010 Ugh I hate it when exes randomly pop up like that, especially when it's years later. What is the point?? You are two completely different people now. I agree with mrkleen, I never go backwards. Things didn't work out and you were out of touch for seven years for a reason. My guess is she recently got out of a longterm relationship and is looking for some comfort/familiarity. I'd tell her to find it elsewhere, personally..
Author Engadget Posted March 17, 2010 Author Posted March 17, 2010 just my philosophy.....I never go backwards if I can help it. clearly you are curious and going to pursue it, so I am not sure why you even asked. I didn't ask anything.
LovelyDaze Posted March 17, 2010 Posted March 17, 2010 Sounds like she had a roundhouse kick of nostalgia seeing you on Facebook and is curious if the chemistry(sexual and/or emotional) could ignite again. Well, as said before, you are an adult now so go with whatever you think you can handle. If it's just sex, then make sure both of you are on the same page and neither wants anything more of it. If you all click again, then great. BTW to all dumpees: THIS is the ultimate in NC...Seven years. NOW you know your ex can pop up out of nowhere...any day...any time....
Author Engadget Posted March 17, 2010 Author Posted March 17, 2010 Sounds like she had a roundhouse kick of nostalgia seeing you on Facebook and is curious if the chemistry(sexual and/or emotional) could ignite again. Well, as said before, you are an adult now so go with whatever you think you can handle. If it's just sex, then make sure both of you are on the same page and neither wants anything more of it. If you all click again, then great. BTW to all dumpees: THIS is the ultimate in NC...Seven years. NOW you know your ex can pop up out of nowhere...any day...any time.... It's funny because me NCing her came up. She brought up how I cut off all ties with people who burn me and sounded sad about it, funny huh? She cheated on me, although I'm not mad at her for it because I was young and stupid, and so was she. If nothing else she's got a good job with a radio station and I'm hoping she could get me a job.
Chrome Barracuda Posted March 17, 2010 Posted March 17, 2010 She cheated on you??? Wow, really and you want to talk to her!? Why. You want a job where she' works at? Forget all that noise, get your own job.
Author Engadget Posted March 17, 2010 Author Posted March 17, 2010 She cheated on you??? Wow, really and you want to talk to her!? Why. You want a job where she' works at? Forget all that noise, get your own job. I let it go, we weren't having sex because of the age difference, it wasn't even that serious and she wanted to get laid. I forgave her, we weren't together that long even, and we were good friends before it. Yeah she has a good advertising job in another state, and my area has insane unemployment and getting a job is near impossible.
sumdude Posted March 17, 2010 Posted March 17, 2010 I say you never know. My ex wife's sister left husband number two for her first husband and apparently they're getting along quite fine.
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