shelovesyou Posted March 17, 2010 Posted March 17, 2010 .. its been 3 months this week since my ex left me for another girl. i know it makes no difference, but the other girl he met on the internet, is 16 and lives half hour away, (he is 21, im nearly 19 and we live around the corner) We were discussing moving in together and our future (we had lost a baby together). We had been together little over a year. Since the breakup we exchanged sme texts, most of them hostile with him accusing me of cheating etc even tho he knows that wasnt the case. About a month ago he admitted he still loved me but loved his new girlfriend more (bloody nice aint it) but lately ive been feeling so low, i really want him back. i sent him a text last week and he never replied. my life seems so empty without him. i know i should move on, but today i feel like rubbish. will he ever regret leaving me? why does he get to be happy while im struggling?
donnamaybe Posted March 17, 2010 Posted March 17, 2010 He's 21 and she's 16? Report him to the cops. I know this is easy to say, but if this guy is chasing after a 16 year old, you don't need him. He's not mature enough for you.
Author shelovesyou Posted March 20, 2010 Author Posted March 20, 2010 so it turns out my low day is turning into a low week he is all i can think about i guess its because ive had no contact from him in a while usually i would hear something whether it be through a friend or whatnot. i just find it so hard to believe that he is genuinly happy with her, i know its a very real possiblity but if its the truth, then it means that over a year of what i thought was love, was wiped out in two days. it seems like he has broken my heart and not have to have felt a thing, jumped in to a new relationship and any romantic feeling he ever had for me, he now has for her. life isnt very fair from where im sitting.
justaguy123 Posted March 21, 2010 Posted March 21, 2010 (edited) life isnt very fair from where im sitting. No it doesn't seem very fair does it. When someone you love sooo much just ups and goes out with another person it really hurts. You question everything, you don't know what to do, how to act, wonder if they will ever come back, wonder if they ever really loved you. I'm right there with you. All you can really do is try and take it one day at a time. It's hard to turn off your brain and stop thinking about them and wonder if they ever think about you. I've gone for a month of NC with my ex and I still think about her all the time. All I can do is work on my problems and myself and try to make me feel better. Edited March 21, 2010 by justaguy123
now_what Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 It doesn't seem fair and it hurts like hell and all the unanswered questions can drive you crazy. My ex left me after a very long term marriage for someone he barely knew and I suppose he is deliriously happy now, while I am still trying to pick up the pieces. Hang in there, be good to yourself.
twinklecat Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 .. its been 3 months this week since my ex left me for another girl. i know it makes no difference, but the other girl he met on the internet, is 16 and lives half hour away, (he is 21, im nearly 19 and we live around the corner) We were discussing moving in together and our future (we had lost a baby together). We had been together little over a year. Since the breakup we exchanged sme texts, most of them hostile with him accusing me of cheating etc even tho he knows that wasnt the case. About a month ago he admitted he still loved me but loved his new girlfriend more (bloody nice aint it) but lately ive been feeling so low, i really want him back. i sent him a text last week and he never replied. my life seems so empty without him. i know i should move on, but today i feel like rubbish. will he ever regret leaving me? why does he get to be happy while im struggling? Oh shelovesyou, I can totally relate here. I'm 5 months after my ex left me for someone else too, me and him also lost a baby together so this jumped right out at me. I feel your pain I really do, it's been the worst time of my life. However although I still have my bad days, I am getting there, and I owe it all to No Contact, I cannot stress that enough. Try not to think about him coming back, how he's happy etc (I know it's bloody difficult) but focus on yourself, improving yourself and also learning from this, it does get better, trust me
Author shelovesyou Posted March 22, 2010 Author Posted March 22, 2010 Oh shelovesyou, I can totally relate here. I'm 5 months after my ex left me for someone else too, me and him also lost a baby together so this jumped right out at me. I feel your pain I really do, it's been the worst time of my life. However although I still have my bad days, I am getting there, and I owe it all to No Contact, I cannot stress that enough. Try not to think about him coming back, how he's happy etc (I know it's bloody difficult) but focus on yourself, improving yourself and also learning from this, it does get better, trust me this sounds so like my situation. i'm left picking up the pieces and it kills me knowing he is so happy with her while i still love him to death. ive tried dating, tried being with other people, i have a new job, new friends, new car and all i want is him.
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