charlyco Posted March 17, 2010 Posted March 17, 2010 I am a MW & had an affair with a MM. The affair lasted 1 year & we ended up both leaving our spouses and moved in together. Us living together lasted 1 month. I suspected he was seeing his wife, and I was right, so I moved back home. I loved him, and have had NC with him since leaving. It has been 7 months. He called the police on me after I moved out and I had to go to the police and show them that it was me that was refusing his calls and not responding to his text messages. I think the police called him and told him that he could have been charged with making a false report if I wanted to bring the charge and not to contact me anymore. During these 7 months I have received some emails from him, but I thought they were automatic spam that is sent because they link email addresses. I don't really know if he sent those, but now I received a email from him wanting me to be a connection of his on his yahoo. I accepted it, and then wished I had not done it. He has 2 other connections on there, and 1 is his wife and the other is another woman. His W knows who I am, and my name is now on his connections with my picture. It is so hard to know if he is being sincere, or what is going on. Any advice would be appreciated.
TaraMaiden Posted March 17, 2010 Posted March 17, 2010 Delete your account, and don't go there any more. Simple.
pureinheart Posted March 17, 2010 Posted March 17, 2010 I am a MW & had an affair with a MM. The affair lasted 1 year & we ended up both leaving our spouses and moved in together. Us living together lasted 1 month. I suspected he was seeing his wife, and I was right, so I moved back home. I loved him, and have had NC with him since leaving. It has been 7 months. He called the police on me after I moved out and I had to go to the police and show them that it was me that was refusing his calls and not responding to his text messages. I think the police called him and told him that he could have been charged with making a false report if I wanted to bring the charge and not to contact me anymore. During these 7 months I have received some emails from him, but I thought they were automatic spam that is sent because they link email addresses. I don't really know if he sent those, but now I received a email from him wanting me to be a connection of his on his yahoo. I accepted it, and then wished I had not done it. He has 2 other connections on there, and 1 is his wife and the other is another woman. His W knows who I am, and my name is now on his connections with my picture. It is so hard to know if he is being sincere, or what is going on. Any advice would be appreciated. Hey, welcome to the forum! That is way cool that the police are starting to deal with false reports (maybe they always have, I have not seen it though, nor heard of it till your post). He sounds like trouble...to call the cops on you....TOTALLY not cool.
califnan Posted March 17, 2010 Posted March 17, 2010 Disconnect from his Yahoo anyway you can. I hope things are going well with you and your husband since moving back .. that is what counts..
ladydesigner Posted March 17, 2010 Posted March 17, 2010 My XOM contacted me as well in a similar way through LinkedIn. We were NC for a month at that time. I just recently removed the contact as there is no need to have ANY connection to him at this point. Like other posters said just disconnect him and keep moving forward.
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