Kalu Posted March 17, 2010 Posted March 17, 2010 It's been 1 month since I broke up with my ex...he dumped me...and ever since I've been flirting with so many guys...I dated a guy that I didn't even liked, I flirted with 10 guys or more, I told people to introduce people to me, I started to chat with people hoping I dunno...to meet someone? I sent sms to my 2 first boyfriends to see how they were doing (they answered buy didn't show much interest, I dumped them so I understand them...they have girlfriends and they are pretty much happy). Some of them show interest, some don't...and when they don't I feel so bad...so worthless, so unloved, so ugly!!! I don't know what's happening to me!!!!! I don't even want a relationship...I need to be alone and heal...It's just that I feel kinda better knowing that someone shows interest in me...I wasn't like this before. Please help me
Rearden Metal Posted March 17, 2010 Posted March 17, 2010 It's the silence, the boredom of being alone that makes you want to talk to people. And flirting is a validation that you're desirable to men. It's only been a month, so you're going to be feeling like this still. As long as you don't do anything that's breaching your own moral code, I say go for it.
Meaplus3 Posted March 17, 2010 Posted March 17, 2010 I don't know what's happening to me!!!!! I don't even want a relationship...I need to be alone and heal...It's just that I feel kinda better knowing that someone shows interest in me...I wasn't like this before. Please help me Your grieving.. that's what is happening to you and it's very normal when a relationship comes to and end. Take your time here.. and go through the motions of healing. You are not required to date anyone else until you are ready. If you are feeling alone, try to keep busy by spending time with family or close friends. Also, a hobby is a great distraction. You will be ok.. just give it a little time. Mea:)
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