shauncytheboom Posted March 16, 2010 Posted March 16, 2010 The love of my life dumped me a year ago. We were long distance but we have lived together as well. I have started dating again and feeling somewhat normal but she still calls once in a while and she is always in my dreams. I would say a couple times a week. I do have a bit of an obsessive mind but I can't really control what I dream about. Has this happened to anyone else? Its kind of worrisome because the dreams are bringing back all kinds of feelings and I don't know how to deal with them. I think I am going crazy or something. Anyone else experienced this, Shauncy
Ilovecake Posted March 16, 2010 Posted March 16, 2010 Yes, but it will pass. My ex was in my dreams for a bout 4 months; it takes me a long time usually to get over stuff. The longer you don't talk to them the less connection the will have in your daily life and that will translate to your dreams. Dreaming is your brain’s way of sorting out your memories.
learned2 love 2late Posted March 16, 2010 Posted March 16, 2010 Only reason is because she is still in your life. you want to get over her? No contact permanantly is the only way to do it. unless u dnt mind and keep her as back up just incase you cant find anyone, providing she wants you back, or you could just use her for sex if she lets you, its been 3 months for me and i have dreams and thoughts about my ex, but the no contact is defo helping me
LovelyDaze Posted March 16, 2010 Posted March 16, 2010 The love of my life dumped me a year ago. We were long distance but we have lived together as well. I have started dating again and feeling somewhat normal but she still calls once in a while and she is always in my dreams. I would say a couple times a week. I do have a bit of an obsessive mind but I can't really control what I dream about. Has this happened to anyone else? Its kind of worrisome because the dreams are bringing back all kinds of feelings and I don't know how to deal with them. I think I am going crazy or something. Anyone else experienced this, Shauncy I have in the past experienced this. The best thing to do NC. ESPECIALLY if you guys have been over for a whole year. Those times she calls is only keeping her fresh in your mind and that is not good. You don't feel happy? Stop accepting her calls. And don't rationalize "staying friends" with her as a way to not ignore her anymore. You have to. You are not in a place where you can be platonic with her so at best...take a break from her contacting you. It might be hard but that is why it is going to work.
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