bestplayer Posted March 18, 2010 Posted March 18, 2010 Nine years ago and you felt it necessary to bring it up? What in the world did that accomplish? If you already felt like you trusted her, loved her and things were going smooth, you felt things would move to a better place by calling her out on a one night stand. Its obvious that your idea of marriage involved complete 100% surrender and honesty. That is fine, par for the course for a marriage based on faith. But here is the deal. You need to ask her, point blank now that you've brought it up if there is anything else you should know, because the cat is out of the bag on your new found interest in knowing if she indeed is the person you think you are with. If she is on board with herself and honest, she'll either say you are not enough for her now that she knows you can't trust her or she'll say it really was just a horrible thing that happened and can now you both move on, together. will u mind reading op's post too , before u start replying ?
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