Thebob Posted March 16, 2010 Posted March 16, 2010 So Ive gotten with 3 girls in the past 4-6 months, one I dated for 2 months of the 6 but long distance failed us, the other was a 1.5 months that failed completely due to long distance and my recent one (last week had a dry spell for about a month) is another long distance situation. I keep putting myself in long distance situations, i get with girls that are on thanksgiving break, winter break, spring break. They all really like me but we all know that it won't work. This recent one is like 7 states away in Ohio and she has been talkin to me everyday since she left about the good times we had with (sex) and how im her southern bf. She wants me to come visit, and she wants me to let her know when I go back home so she can visit me. I don't know what she wants outta this since it's super long distance, but I need to stop finding these long distant situations and get a girl that is in town. This is pretty much a rant cause I should have had multiple gf's by now, but distance is an epic failure. I'm in my early twenties and never had an "Official GF" due to these constant struggles lol. Thanks for listening. hahahaha. Has anyone else ever had these issues? Thebob
mrkleen Posted March 16, 2010 Posted March 16, 2010 If you can handle having a sometimes girl in different area codes….go for it. But sounds like you try to lock them all down, which is a bad idea when you know they are long distance from the beginning.
LoveLace Posted March 16, 2010 Posted March 16, 2010 Sounds like LDR's are just not for you...they work perfectly for some...it all depends. I personally don't think they are for me, either. I'd like for a relationship to be convenient in geography...I think the healthiest part of LDR's is that it makes couples really miss each other, usually. It was too hard for me to handle for every time I tried it myself. But there some folks who do it and manage to make it work, make it convenient in the best way they can, and are very happy. Online dating is probably the best way to narrow down and see a selection of what's out there for you based on the distance you desire...that or just refrain from any romantic involvement what so ever with any woman you meet who says she's from Ohio or where ever...if that doesn't solve the problem, nothing will...(:
Author Thebob Posted March 16, 2010 Author Posted March 16, 2010 lol yea, but we end up likin each other a lot so its tough to just let it go and not at least give it a try. Why ruin a good thing when its going well if that makes sense? but yea, we'll see, hopefully I find a girl down here soon that I am actually compatible with. Thebob
alphamale Posted March 16, 2010 Posted March 16, 2010 , but I need to stop finding these long distant situations and get a girl that is in town. This is pretty much a rant cause I should have had multiple gf's by now, but distance is an epic failure. I'm in my early twenties and never had an "Official GF" due to these constant struggles lol. Thanks for listening. hahahaha. Has anyone else ever had these issues? dude there has to be at least ONE single chick within 30 miles of you
OnlyJake Posted March 17, 2010 Posted March 17, 2010 I was in a LD situation once, it was because I didn't want to deal with all the bull**** of being in an actual relationship, Which would inevitably come up if I was into someone nearby, I wanted to maintain my freedom/independence and not have to answer to anyone or include anyone in my plans, but also wanted to have someone to look forward to seeing occasionally, and flirting with via text and email. I managed to find someone who wanted the exact same thing. It worked out great, to a point. In short, maybe you're just not ready.
paleblue Posted March 17, 2010 Posted March 17, 2010 ahhh the wonderful world of dating.... try, and try, and go for it again : )
Author Thebob Posted March 17, 2010 Author Posted March 17, 2010 at least you got laid, right? Right?? True, but still its not fulfilling once you complete the sexual encounter, you wish it was someone you actually really cared about. dude there has to be at least ONE single chick within 30 miles of you I wish there was, I'm sure she's here I just have to find her. At least if anyone complains to me when im older about not having a gf, at least they wouldn't be going through the struggles that I currently am going through. Thebob
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