sue123 Posted March 16, 2010 Posted March 16, 2010 Hi i have been married 20 years and I think my hub is cheating at work, i have all his passwords for phones ,email and most other things although he doesnt know this, but he is constantly mentioning the boss daughter who is 22 years junior to him he is 43, or he was until i asked himlo what was going on, he does his own washing, gets in the shower when he gets home and never wants sex, he always critisised me, moans at me, the only time he goes out is on a sat and sun morning he says to do his food shopping for his packed lunches at work, i called round to his work a couple of weeks ago and the bosses daughter walked past and she stared at me all the time she was walking past not a nice stare like a nasty stare although she had never met me before, so i said i thought u said she was thin, he said she is but she didnt look it to me although he might have seen her without clothes, also i dont want to seem rude but i found stains in his underwear, do u think there is something going on at work or am i been paranoid, also do people who have affairs at work keep it at work or do they always meet up outside the workplace
Confused Lady Posted April 16, 2010 Posted April 16, 2010 Sometimes they keep it at work.....sometimes they met elsewhere.
BlueeyedJonesy Posted April 16, 2010 Posted April 16, 2010 haven't u posted this story already word for word? I'm sorry..I'm not trying to be rude but are you trying to get more updated answers or what? I'm sorry that you are going through this have you tried asking him point blank?
Author sue123 Posted April 16, 2010 Author Posted April 16, 2010 Hi no i have posted this once i think, this was the first time i have been on this site, so i am still learning my way round, i am at the end of my tether and really dont know wat to do anymore, we are still not speaking or sleeping together, he ignored my birthday and our 20th wed ann
scatterd Posted April 16, 2010 Posted April 16, 2010 Look on the net they have kits for finding out if he has had sex from semen on underware call him on it sounds kind of like something is up watch for his movments, look up how to reconize when someone is lieing go through phone check accounts do what ever you have to.Look up cheaters find out all you can to catch him.good luck! hope its nothing
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