ConflictedGuy27 Posted March 18, 2010 Posted March 18, 2010 Sigh... This sounds all too familiar to me. This is more than a hook up/ one night stand. To be as ambivalent as you are about the OM and your BF strongly says that this OM is deep in your head. Fact of the matter is you're already in too deep. Although I suspect you will not, I strongly suggest that you tell your BF what you did and WHY you did it. As far as you are conserned, your emotions have got the better of you; at least for the moment. Either way, you have to tell him. Bottom line, he WILL find out if u keep doing what you're doing. Guys WILL put the clues together and figure it out. Trust me. I've seen your situation from his perspective. Tell the truth and let him decide. You need to understand what within you is making you behaive this way if it's your plan to have a successful long term relationship in the future. Look inside yourself.
spriggig Posted March 18, 2010 Posted March 18, 2010 Love is dead, marriage is dead, and most of all, trust is dead.....Let's leave everything and be slaves of our lusts & *** each other till the doomsday comes. For my part, I think apart from a couple of real friends & family I will never ever be able to trust anyone ever again...... I'm sorry to hear this, but I really enjoy the balance your posts bring to cheating. Not being sarcastic here, I and everyone else in this situation needs to be kicked in the balls to wake up. Thanks.
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