Frustrating!!!

[OOReeee]

I was doing really well.

off for 5 weeks, complete, full NC for a week.

And then I see her at a bar.

And she says hi, and I say hi back, not trying to engage a conversation.

And she sits a table next to me, texting me that I should join them, I text her thank you but I'll pass.

Then I leave, saying goodbye to the whole table, didn't really want to pay extra attention to her.

She texts me that I should act like an adult and say good bye.

I text her back: I left, said a quick goodbye and that's it, nothing childish about that.

She doesn't text back, after an hour texts me how drunk she is and how funny her friends are.

I ignored.

 

I was feeling so good until tonight and I feel so frustrated right now.

She just constantly trying to make me feel like the bad guy for not wanting to talk to her or to have any contact with her.

 

I feel so upset right now.

[Confusedguy81]

I would have ignored her first text where she claims you should acted like an adult. Better just to not have much to do with her and act like you dont give two craps about what she says.

[sativo]

They're so cruel... the dumpers. Can't they just leave us alone?

[Confusedguy81]

people designate too much power to the dumper. The best "vengeance" is moving on and making your life better without them.

[Ilovecake]

She sounds extremely immature. She was obviously trying to get some attention and got pissed because you wouldn't play her games. Good for you, cool and nonchalant is the way to go.

[Ilovecake]

They're so cruel... the dumpers. Can't they just leave us alone?

 

No because seeing us suffer over them is the biggest ego boost they can get and when we no longer show that we care they fall apart emotionally. Screw the selfish dumpers!

Edited March 16, 2010 by Ilovecake

[OOReeee]

well, the count of total NC days begins again, ugh.