McGrupp Posted March 16, 2010 Posted March 16, 2010 great in bed. im saying he was an amazing lover. didnt cheat, or lie. i doubt it...
D-Lish Posted March 16, 2010 Posted March 16, 2010 ok then. /thread lol! Why are you asking? In my situation, despite his great qualities I didn't love him- and I knew we both deserved more than that.
LovelyDaze Posted March 16, 2010 Posted March 16, 2010 ok then. /thread lol! :laugh:! I'm with D-Lish. I have only because we didn't communicate well at all. It was just awkward but yes, the sex was great and he seemed like a good guy. Wonder where he is now? LOL
Author McGrupp Posted March 16, 2010 Author Posted March 16, 2010 no i juust read this thing about how orgasm = love for women or something like that. and i was thinking about how the last time me and the ex banged it was horrible. we were hardly speaking. it was awkward (3 + years together, wtf) however the time b4 that (maybe 2.5 weeks cause i was on vaca in between) we banged 3 times and acted like the kids we were. so anyway...it sucks to go out like that. i sure thats not why...but still asucker punch to the ego!!!!!!
Ilovecake Posted March 16, 2010 Posted March 16, 2010 1. Achieving orgasm doesn't necessarily mean the guy you're with is great in bed. It just means he brought you to orgasm. After all I can do that myself. 2. Orgasm does not = love. I would have fallen in love dozens if not hundreds of times by now. 3. Sometimes you can have great chemistry but your relationship can lack in other areas. I've been on both sides of the coin. I have been in love with a man who unfortunately was pretty lousy in bed and worst of all was a horrible kisser. I've also broken up with men who have been fantastic lovers but just didn't do it for me in some other aspect.
mella Posted March 16, 2010 Posted March 16, 2010 I did, too. I did it because he was not very intelligent and I couldn't stand having to dumb down conversations all the time - and forget trying to play Scrabble!
CarrieT Posted March 16, 2010 Posted March 16, 2010 I have several times. The funniest one was Marcus -- best sex ever and had the intellect of a glowworm (and knew it)... A year after we broke up, I bumped into him at a Renaissance Faire, trying to woo another maiden. He laughingly introduced me to her and told her, "go ahead, ask Carrie about me!" I smiled sweetly at the girl and confirmed, "Yep, Marcus was one of the best and most considerate lovers I ever had -- and he doesn't have two brain cells to rub together." He knew his shortcomings, such as they were, and also knew how good he was at other things.
ingridh Posted March 16, 2010 Posted March 16, 2010 no i juust read this thing about how orgasm = love for women or something like that. Not quite. It is something like this: "Men mistake friendship for love, and women mistake sex for love." You are welcome
sally4sara Posted March 16, 2010 Posted March 16, 2010 Yes I have dumped a guy who was great in bed despite him not cheating or lying, because he was crazy jealous all the time.
bananaboat11 Posted March 16, 2010 Posted March 16, 2010 I am all those great things and then some. Ladies, please... use me, abuse me, peruse me, and then dump me.
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