rivermagic Posted March 16, 2010 Posted March 16, 2010 My boyfriend and I broke it off, I found out I was pregnant. We decided to get back together. Two weeks later, I started fighting with my boyfriend on the 8th of march. I started fighting with him over him not spending anytime with me. Which he was not at the time. He was spending all day, everyday with his friends. I pushed him to want a break. For 2 days he ignored me, and eventually called me back. I told him I wanted to talk to him. He said not now, I have something I have to do. A day later, he showed up to talk to me, and I broke it off with him. He looked sad, told me that we have to keep in contact because of baby, I told him to take his things, so that I would be able to get over the break up, and move on. and he would not take his things. So I carried them out to the car, and sat them in front of his door. He still drove off without taking them. Now it is the 15th and I have been calling him, he is ignoring my phone calls, and not coming to get his things. Why will he not pick them up? I do feel bad also about the break up, and I am hoping we can get back together. But it seems impossible to do that when he will not talk to me. What should I do to get him to talk to me?
sagetalk Posted March 16, 2010 Posted March 16, 2010 Why are you shocked he is ignoring you? You sound like a terrible person. I feel sorry for this guy, but it's his fault too. He should have never had sex with someone who acts like this. I wish I could be nicer, but your post is horrifying.
desertmoon Posted March 16, 2010 Posted March 16, 2010 My boyfriend and I broke it off, I found out I was pregnant. We decided to get back together. Two weeks later, I started fighting with my boyfriend on the 8th of march. I started fighting with him over him not spending anytime with me. Which he was not at the time. He was spending all day, everyday with his friends. I pushed him to want a break. For 2 days he ignored me, and eventually called me back. I told him I wanted to talk to him. He said not now, I have something I have to do. A day later, he showed up to talk to me, and I broke it off with him. He looked sad, told me that we have to keep in contact because of baby, I told him to take his things, so that I would be able to get over the break up, and move on. and he would not take his things. So I carried them out to the car, and sat them in front of his door. He still drove off without taking them. Now it is the 15th and I have been calling him, he is ignoring my phone calls, and not coming to get his things. Why will he not pick them up? I do feel bad also about the break up, and I am hoping we can get back together. But it seems impossible to do that when he will not talk to me. What should I do to get him to talk to me? He will not pick up his things because he knows you have been using it to have a reason to call him and he is enjoying the chase. He probably has a good idea you really did not want to break up with him and was just playing some game. Push-Pull, push-pull. Let him be. Stop calling him. Concentrate on taking care of yourself. There is another life depending on you to do the right things.
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