eternal.denied84 Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 i keep finding reasons that why would my girl leave me its been close to 7 months and i am still stuck i have asked her umpteen times..she has given me numebr of reasons..on how i made her feel pathetic..and which changed her feelings for me. but i still keep thinking that theres someone else involved... recently i found some other guy in her skype i checked that guy on her fb friendlist and he was there...my mind has been ****ed since then..why would you add a person on skype with whom you are not involved in video chat..and why would she engage in video chat with just a normal friend... i asked her if he is the guy she found and is going around she said no..i am not able to believe that without anyone else being involved she can leave a relationship..my mind has been ****ed up totally..i have lost my concentration and peace of my mind..please suggest how to get out of this.? this is ruining my life. i will do anything possible to come out of this.I just can't get out ..why am i thinking reasons for something which is over 6 months before and most probably she has already found someone else. i have been on NC for close to 2 months for two times and i broke it last time recently only after seeing that guy in her skype and i am back to ground zero. i am intelligent and career oriented guy..this relation has totally ****ed my lifestyle and my mind..please tell me something to get out of this asap.
Andrew1984 Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 medication. Go to the doctor. I was like you a week and a half ago until i just couldnt take the pointless obsession anymore and went to the doctor for antidepressants and counseling. Everybody talks bad about antidepressants but they have really killed my anxiety and obsession. They are helping me move on with my life to become free of this. Never in my life would I have belived that I would be taking meds like this but I recently realized I just cant do it on my own and I need help. Its been 8 months since my girl left. you need to stop obsessing because it will kill you in some way. you need to get on with your life an rise above this. there is no need to keep going over the what ifs and the what can I do. Its time to let it go, its in the past and nothing will change that. This is what I tell myself, and this is what I tell you.
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