BigAl Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 How do you do this? She asks what's wrong and when I tell her she gets defensive. I really want to make it work. But I'm the type that gets quiet. So she asks what's wrong, I tell her, and she gets mad. Why ask? I'm lost.
deux ex machina Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 You should definitely feel that you can tell her anything you need to. Very important. It's hard to address a post with so little detail given...the only thing I can offer is to see if you can try a different approach. I wonder if you brought up the wider issue with her - that is, that you want to discuss matters with her, but whenever you do she gets too defensive. What does she say?
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