rebeccajones Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 I dated women a few years but only want to be with a man now, what am I? I became curious in college (late20's) so I got involved in the lesbian scene for a few years. No relationship worked out and I met a man again and realized how right and better it felt. As a child I always liked boys and growing up as a teenager and in my 20's I only dated guys, but I had this time when I became really curious. It's been about 10 years since that time and I wonder if I have to explain this to someone I am involved with. I still have a few friends from that time, people who I respect, but they live a different lifestyle. Anyway I feel weird that I have lesbian friends, not alot and I am not with them alot. I'll see them once in a while a at a party. But my boyfriend does not know about my past, should he?
Wolfgirl Posted March 17, 2010 Posted March 17, 2010 It's always a risk to come out about being a lez, though, you are a bi. You should find out first what he thinks of gays and lez's, before you tell him. Though if he hates you for your past, he ain't a true lover. If he doesn't really answer, then don't tell him directly, let him be the one to ask about your love life past. Then tell him the truth, but only if you more than 60% positive that he won't ditch on ya. Trust me, a homophobic person can react pretty badly sometimes. Though as I said, if he really loves ya, he shouldn't run out on ya. try it out, and be careful!
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