duece22022 Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 Ii have a crush on this girl. We hung out a couple times and actually hooked up on one of those occasions. I met her through one of my friends who happens to be her best friend. We both have just came out of long term relationships and I think it might be to soon for her. I think her hooking up with me might have initiated their breakup. I heard it through the grapevine that she likes me. After hearing that news (about her breakup and that she thinks i'm cute) it has been the first time that I have actually felt happy since my breakup 3 months ago. I was miserable for the last 3 months. This feeling takes my mind off my ex and it feels really good. I know this would be considered a "rebound" but I think i really need this. Here is my questions.... should I pursue her? or should I just wait it out and keep hanging out with her and see where it goes from there. I really want to ask our mutual friend if she likes me and if I should pursue her. Any advice...... I am just so fragile right now and i don't want to lose this feeling because it is helping me look past my last relationship. I think this girl is really cool and I like hanging out with her. Thanks.....
mrkleen Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 If you think it may be a rebound, it probably is. If you look at it as a person to hang out with once in a while – it could well be ok. Problem is that most people who fall into a rebound, jump in with both feet – and end up getting hurt sooner or later. You already hooked up, so the cat might be out of the bag so to speak….but I say you have to take a good hard look at whether you can handle this or not. My bet is you are better off to remain on your own, work on yourself a b it, and if you run into this girl again in 6 months – maybe you can try it then.
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