duece22022 Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 I have a crush on this girl. We hung out a couple times and actually hooked up on one of those occasions. I met her through one of my friends who happens to be her best friend. We both have just came out of long term relationships and I think it might be to soon for her. I think her hooking up with me might have initiated their breakup. I heard it through the grapevine that she likes me. After hearing that news (about her breakup and that she thinks i'm cute) it has been the first time that I have actually felt happy since my breakup 3 months ago. I was miserable for the last 3 months. This feeling takes my mind off my ex and it feels really good. I know this would be considered a "rebound" but I think i really need this. Here is my questions.... should I pursue her? or should I just wait it out and keep hanging out with her and see where it goes from there. I really want to ask our mutual friend if she likes me and if I should pursue her. Any advice...... I am just so fragile right now and i don't want to lose this feeling because it is helping me look past my last relationship. I think this girl is really cool and I like hanging out with her. Thanks.
sedgwick Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 It's always tough to backtrack when you sleep with someone before really knowing them. If you like her, I'd say just call her up and ask her out! What have you got to lose? Just ask her to have coffee or something, it doesn't have to be high-pressure. The biggest thing I'd be wary of is that her hooking up with you might have led to her split with the last guy -- do you think you could be comfortable dating her without worrying she'd cheat on you?
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