dressing up Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 Do you know any females that exude some kind of vibes that attract men to them like bees to honey? I have a friend that can just stand somewhere without doing much and men will hit on her. She's not even that great looking. Men, have you encountered such females? If so, can you describe what vibes they exude? I'm starting to think it's some biological smell they give off.
Johnny M Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 Do you know any females that exude some kind of vibes that attract men to them like bees to honey? I have a friend that can just stand somewhere without doing much and men will hit on her. She's not even that great looking. Men, have you encountered such females? If so, can you describe what vibes they exude? I'm starting to think it's some biological smell they give off. Didn't you post the same question in another thread already? The answer that you were given there is the correct one. Some women have a very sexual, "I would sleep with anybody" vibe about them. I'm not sure that's much of a blessing though.
Author dressing up Posted March 15, 2010 Author Posted March 15, 2010 Didn't you post the same question in another thread already? The answer that you were given there is the correct one. Some women have a very sexual, "I would sleep with anybody" vibe about them. I'm not sure that's much of a blessing though. Didn't post it but was replying to another thread. Could that kind of vibe be given off just like that (not that I would like that)? It's not like they have tousled hair or come-hither looks.
Art_Critic Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 I'm starting to think it's some biological smell they give off. hahahahaha and each girls is different
Author dressing up Posted March 15, 2010 Author Posted March 15, 2010 hahahahaha and each girls is different So did you pick up on any such unspoken vibes that would prompt you to hit on a certain girl?
Johnny M Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 Didn't post it but was replying to another thread. Could that kind of vibe be given off just like that (not that I would like that)? It's not like they have tousled hair or come-hither looks. It's a combination of different factors (smell not being one them, lol). The type of girl you are describing is totally different from the typical attention-seeking, sluttily dressed female. Attention whores dress and groom the way they do because they want to attract male attention - and that is usually very obvious. The girl you are describing sends out the "slutty vibes" without consciously trying to.
monkeymaid Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 this is my ex. ...i didnt fight them off, but i was woken up at least once a week by a midnight text to which i would reply "eff off" and you wonder why she is my ex...
desertmoon Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 This is going to sound like I am tooting my own horn and I apologize, but I have yet to go to a social gathering without being hit on.I am not very talkative nor dress provocatively and do not think I am over the top pretty- I think I am ok and have always wondered what it is that men see in me. My exes used to tell me that I cannot be left alone in social gatherings because men have always tried to "hit" on me. Apparently, there is a certain "vulnerability" and "aloofness" about me that draw men to me- I bring out the "knight in shining armor to the rescue", and present a kind of challenge to them all at once. Do you buy that? I don't, but have never argued their assessment.
Author dressing up Posted March 15, 2010 Author Posted March 15, 2010 This is going to sound like I am tooting my own horn and I apologize, but I have yet to go to a social gathering without being hit on.I am not very talkative nor dress provocatively and do not think I am over the top pretty- I think I am ok and have always wondered what it is that men see in me. My exes used to tell me that I cannot be left alone in social gatherings because men have always tried to "hit" on me. Apparently, there is a certain "vulnerability" and "aloofness" about me that draw men to me- I bring out the "knight in shining armor to the rescue", and present a kind of challenge to them all at once. Do you buy that? I don't, but have never argued their assessment. I think my friend has the vulnerability that makes men want to protect her.
boogieboy Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 Apparently, there is a certain "vulnerability" and "aloofness" about me that draw men to me- I bring out the "knight in shining armor to the rescue", and present a kind of challenge to them all at once. Do you buy that? I don't, but have never argued their assessment. All that is crap. Men dont go after a woman more because she is vunerable or aloof. That sounds like some womans qualifications for men they would hit on. You probably have universal features that most guys like is all. Smile is important, clothes showing the right body shape is important, hair and face is the icing on the cake. Once they get past the looks, then its all about your personality. Flirty works, sexy voice and speech, and then class.
desertmoon Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 All that is crap. Men dont go after a woman more because she is vunerable or aloof. That sounds like some womans qualifications for men they would hit on. You probably have universal features that most guys like is all. Smile is important, clothes showing the right body shape is important, hair and face is the icing on the cake. Once they get past the looks, then its all about your personality. Flirty works, sexy voice and speech, and then class. I agree with you-like I said, I do not buy it. But THAT was the explanation I was given by two exes.
Author dressing up Posted March 15, 2010 Author Posted March 15, 2010 it's all abt confidence! I'm starting to think it's not one factor or another. It's everything in one. What I mean is that nobody can replicate it, by say increasing one's confidence or making oneself look vulnerable. It's something from within, like what my friend has. Or maybe she just looks attractive to the men.
gypsy_nicky Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 its called 'sexiness'. You just need moderate attractiveness to pull it off. You don't need to dress slutty. Its how you move and carry yourself.
LucreziaBorgia Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 I have a friend like that. She is a bit heavier than other girls, but she has men swarming over her constantly. She has a very pretty face, long hair, dresses like she takes some real time and effort into her outfits (which flatter her figure and are just awesome anyway), wears sexy makeup, etc. She carries herself confidently, is really smart and is easy to talk to. You get the idea that she does her style for herself and not for any man's sake. I guess men can tell that she is not setting herself up to be chased like a lot of other women do.
Author dressing up Posted March 16, 2010 Author Posted March 16, 2010 I have a friend like that. She is a bit heavier than other girls, but she has men swarming over her constantly. She has a very pretty face, long hair, dresses like she takes some real time and effort into her outfits (which flatter her figure and are just awesome anyway), wears sexy makeup, etc. She carries herself confidently, is really smart and is easy to talk to. You get the idea that she does her style for herself and not for any man's sake. I guess men can tell that she is not setting herself up to be chased like a lot of other women do. I would think your friend could be attractive because she's my kind of woman. However, my friend is obsessed about men. Some friends even tell her she has a low self-esteem that requires men's attention all the time. (Yep, I know. They're probably jealous of her.) She talks about men all the time, the men she went out with and the ones she's going out with. Who asked her out, who beat her door down to ask her out.
sagetalk Posted March 16, 2010 Posted March 16, 2010 Do you know any females that exude some kind of vibes that attract men to them like bees to honey? I have a friend that can just stand somewhere without doing much and men will hit on her. She's not even that great looking. Men, have you encountered such females? If so, can you describe what vibes they exude? I'm starting to think it's some biological smell they give off. Piece of cake answer, they are sending signals that they are easy. Don't hurt yourself over it, guys are not that complicated.
aystro Posted March 16, 2010 Posted March 16, 2010 Do you know any females that exude some kind of vibes that attract men to them like bees to honey? I have a friend that can just stand somewhere without doing much and men will hit on her. She's not even that great looking. Men, have you encountered such females? If so, can you describe what vibes they exude? I'm starting to think it's some biological smell they give off. It's so easy. There are women who 'shield' them selves from men (sub)conciously and others who 'welcome' them. It's like their body language says 'okey you can interact with me I won't hurt you, in fact I'm interested in you SPECIFICALLY', to which the guy responds omg she wants me... In practice, its the innocent look, the shy smile, the 'ow what mighty prince can help me out I'm so lost' behaviour, being polite is sexy to a lot of men as well. There are more things just I'm running out of ideas atm
Author dressing up Posted March 16, 2010 Author Posted March 16, 2010 It's so easy. There are women who 'shield' them selves from men (sub)conciously and others who 'welcome' them. It's like their body language says 'okey you can interact with me I won't hurt you, in fact I'm interested in you SPECIFICALLY', to which the guy responds omg she wants me... In practice, its the innocent look, the shy smile, the 'ow what mighty prince can help me out I'm so lost' behaviour, being polite is sexy to a lot of men as well. There are more things just I'm running out of ideas atm I guess that's the difference between me and my friend. Men do take a second look at me though they don't always approach me like they do with my friend. Sometimes I think men are spoilt by people like my friend (no, not jealous of her since she's a dear friend). They have it easy so why would they need to break down someone's wall?
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