denispearl Posted March 14, 2010 Share Posted March 14, 2010 Hello. We meet here (UK) at Uni. She came for a one year and she is going back on summer. Im love her so much, also she said she coulnd promice anything and also she has a boyfriend, which she is not sure about. Anyway, assuming worth scenario _ how can I cope? One day without her its hell and when I look at our pictures its so hurts, I really feel so bad to realise that she is not with me and I lost her, as I was so happy with her. I cant think about anything else. Please help.!!! Yes Im a guy 30 years old and I feel so bad:( Link to post Share on other sites
LovelyDaze Posted March 15, 2010 Share Posted March 15, 2010 Hello. We meet here (UK) at Uni. She came for a one year and she is going back on summer. Im love her so much, also she said she coulnd promice anything and also she has a boyfriend, which she is not sure about. Anyway, assuming worth scenario _ how can I cope? One day without her its hell and when I look at our pictures its so hurts, I really feel so bad to realise that she is not with me and I lost her, as I was so happy with her. I cant think about anything else. Please help.!!! Yes Im a guy 30 years old and I feel so bad:( The brutal truth? You must cope by understanding that she has chosen to stay with her boyfriend in her home country instead of having an LDR with you. Long distance relationships are hard enough in different towns within the same country so just imagine what you guys would have to go through. She is basically telling you that she is not interested in an LDR and would prefer to always have a boyfriend that is in her sight. It hurts like hell but just take this time to mourn the loss of the relationship and then dust yourself off and move on with your life without her. To totally heal after grieving, take small steps into getting your life back to a normal path by concentrating on your studies, hanging with friends and eventually jump back into the dating pool when you feel comfortable. Trust me, she is NOT the last woman you will ever feel a great connection with. There are too many women in the world to not believe in that. Link to post Share on other sites
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