eternal.denied84 Posted March 14, 2010 Posted March 14, 2010 My gf was really a bitch she has broke one guy heart before me ..i actually spoke to that guy and came to know that it took him 1.5 yrs to come over this girl..she broke up with me for petty reason and have been so ruthless and mean to me that i could not collect my dignity back..i cried a river & begged for her but all in vain.. now it seems she is going on with someone else..i feel so miserable and pathetic..what should i do? i asked this girl ..is she going ahead with smone now since its been only 3 months or so and she said she is not answerable to me..am i just reacting too much? i asked her to show some mercy to me which she could not..she infact yelled at me abused me and told not to call her ever again..i got furious and called her pros. which i am repenting now.. i have called her pros earlier as well ..later regret and apologized..i am heartbroken devastated and shattered..am i just reacting too much? should i drop her a mail saying that yes she was correct that i should not even ask her if she is going around with someone else? should i apologize for badmouthing her? how would this prove its worth when i have apologized to her in past and then again badmouthed her? i contacted her after 2 months of NC and went back to ground zero..please suggest should i leave it here and move on..or should i sent her an apology mail?
ussy Posted March 14, 2010 Posted March 14, 2010 The thing that is best for you is probably the last thing you want to hear, but the RIGHT thing to do is this situation is absolutely NOTHING..... If you want to show her that you dont care then what better way is there than doing "nothing"??? That way your showing her that if she's gonna act like a b***h then she isn't worth your time at all! Deep down you know yourself that its best for you to move on, but you'd rather just hang on to that bit of hope and keep thinking "what if". Trust me, I've been there myself, and that is the worst thing you can possibly do. Live life to the full, enjoy it.... be grateful for everything! Maybe you can keep that love deep down in your heart, but dont let that phase you in anyway. The thing that helps me not think about my ex is that every time i think about her, i think of all the b***h things she said to me when i tried to get her back, that just helps to make me think that she wasn't worth it if she could treat me like that. You should try it and see if it works for you, good luck
DustySaltus Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 As Michael Corleone said in Godfather 2, you can have my answer now: Nothing. Not a phone call, not a text, not an email or facebook search. Nothing. Not another wasted moment, not another thought. The question is, what are YOU going to do to make YOURSELF a better person? It's all about you at this point...no one else.
Jeff1962 Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 Leave her alone. Go full permanent NC. Sorry dude.
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