ashleigh422 Posted March 14, 2010 Posted March 14, 2010 So.. I have two kids and a somewhat recent split up. I know it was for the best, but can anyone tell me what you do to keep your mind of of how truely lonely you are. My kids help.. but the adult/physical/emotional part i start to miss.. not necessarily the ex. I normally start to confuse boredom with missing him and start doubting that I made the right decision (EVEN THOUGH DEEP DOWN I KNOW I DID) I very offten try to find another man to fill the void.. which I know I should not do..
monkeymaid Posted March 14, 2010 Posted March 14, 2010 sounds rough. ...i know all too well about how lonely you feel when you are bored! i get that same feeling daily as for a new man, it will be fun and distracting for a little bit, but then you will feel guilty. the pain of HIM not being there will overthrow. ...better to sit with your feelings and go through them. i know its harder than sin, and that you just want to sit down, or sleep, but keep going and doing 1 thing at a time. keep your head up. you will come out on top!
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