eternal.denied84 Posted March 14, 2010 Posted March 14, 2010 i just came to know somehow that my ex is seeing someone else..i kept asking her while we were breaking up that if thers someone else please let me know..please let me know for gods sake..and she kept saying there's no one..i am just crying like hell after coming to know that she didn't even have the guts to tell me the truth..i feel so pathetic i cant express in words.. why did this happen to me?
HeavenOrHell Posted March 14, 2010 Posted March 14, 2010 Do you know that she was seeing him (her?) while you two were still together? If you do then try to use that hurt/anger to move you forward, you deserve better, someone who will not cheat on you no matter what. If she wasn't seeing someone while you were still together but she is now, then she has every right to, as painful as it is. You were both free to see other people from the moment you split. I tried to stay friends with my ex but the moment he said he fancied other people I walked away. You've done well being NC for 2 months, don't look back. It took 7 months (after 18 years together) and a month NC to start to feel better, I've kept busy, seen friends, cultivated friendships with men and it has all helped. i just came to know somehow that my ex is seeing someone else..i kept asking her while we were breaking up that if thers someone else please let me know..please let me know for gods sake..and she kept saying there's no one..i am just crying like hell after coming to know that she didn't even have the guts to tell me the truth..i feel so pathetic i cant express in words.. why did this happen to me?
Author eternal.denied84 Posted March 14, 2010 Author Posted March 14, 2010 once again i called her a pros after seeing his ruthless behaviour..why am i like this why cant i control myself and my emotions..i am back to square one after 2 months of NC.I dont even have guts to apologize to her for calling bad words..coz i have done that earlier apoligized and now did again..there's something seriously wrong with me. how come smone can provoke me to this extent?..Please guid should i sent her an email apologizing. but keep in mind that i have sent couple of emails like this earlier and then again i go back to her and badmouth.
Andrew1984 Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 Listen bro. One of the things I highly regret is the way I acted during the months following my breakup with my girl. I was like you, feeling such despair and desperation. I dont know your situation, but I would recomend struggling as hard as you can to not make contact to make things right. It probably wont help and just leaves a lasting impression on how she will come to think of you in the future. when she looks back on your relationship you want her to remember the good times, not how you acted during the final days. No actions, or words are going to bring her back. shes made her descion and needs to be left alone. i know its hard dude i think about her every day and miss her a great deal but she has moved on and is with someone else. as far as not being able to control your emotions I know all about that too. you just go crazy inside and obsess over the past and this leaves you beliving that there is something wrong with you. I know you have heard it before but try as hard as you can to keep yourself distracted and busy and stop doing things to try and make things right. you will only regret it in the future. I know I did. Good luck brother
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