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Well there is this hot guy who works at the place where I get my coffee (he makes the coffee).

 

At the beginning there was this instant noticing of each other as I would walk past and then I decided to order coffee from him one day... There was the starring in the eyes a little more longer than usual as I gave him my order. And as he would hand over my latte there was this pause and glaze of the eyes. He looked at me in a way where he made me feel very beautiful.*Can't describe it.*

 

I hadn't seen him for a while after that and thought he had left the job and then one mourning I saw him and I thought to myself this time I'm going to start the conversation so I told him how good his coffee is and what coffee he uses lol

 

"We make our own blend... what do you think about it? Do you think it’s too strong or too weak?" I reply "It’s perfect, just in between and I'm fussy with my coffee too". "Oh good" he smiled as I smiled back.

 

He was soooo cute!! He got all lost for words; "That was to have here? Ah yeah (nervous laugh)" and Me; "um no take away", him stumbling his words; "haha um err yeah take away I mean" and laughs as I smile at his cuteness!

 

In 2 minutes he told me he was going away in 6 weeks backpacking around Europe which included Rome, Paris etc!!! I asked him if he has family in Europe he could stay with... He told me he has family in North Italy and he even told me his age "You know being 24 years old, bla bla"

 

He quietly told me "Here ill stamp a few more on your coffee card so that you can get a free coffee next time" (he stamped it like 5 times, not just one extra stamp!) aw

 

He seemed to give me a lot of information about himself. Now I won't see him for a whole week cause I'm going away! =( Then I will only have 5 weeks till he leaves!!!

 

So I know there is not a great deal you can go by (This is a very fresh crush lol) but what do think? Is there an attraction on his behalf, is he interested in me? =)

 

I didn't realize how crazy I was for him till we actually spoke wow he is gorgeous!

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Date others, don't obsess.

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aw... so sweet! crushes are the best... and the worst some times too! :laugh:

 

just go with it and try to make it fun. it sounds like he is definitely interested and wouldn't be surprised if he asks for your number next time. ;)

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I agree... :) crushes are so exciting! Just have fun with what time you have, at least ,you know that at some point you will be very far each other and LDRs are difficult to maintain-but you know, keeping in touch is not difficult to do.

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Did I misread? I thought he was going backpacking through Europe... how long is he going to be gone? Im sure he didn't forget to mention that right?

 

Either way.. I think he def seemed interested.

 

Yeah I agree.. don't wait around or hold out if something comes along.. but there just might be something there when he gets back.. I bet the last thing he wants right now is to have to worry about a new relationship when he is accross the ocean.. So I'd just go about my business and see where it takes ya..

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Have you heard the song "Taylor, the Latte Boy" by Kristen Chenoweth? If not, you must go look it up right now. ;)

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If he is interested, he'll make an attempt to see you outside of his work. Give it some time and see what happens.

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