Eclypse Posted March 14, 2010 Posted March 14, 2010 I work on the weekends as a sports umpire, and whenever finals time rolls around like now I get posted out to locations other than the one I am usually. Yesterday I was out in a stadium I hadn't been before and was paired with a girl. She struck me as really sweet and nice. We had a great time (even though we copped a lot of crap from the players / parents, but that's a different story!). Talked a fair bit about each other etc. From personal experience and research on flirting I attempted to analyse her as I tend to do subconsciously now. The signs seemed to be there, the eye contact and particularly the mirroring of moves. When our shifts ended and we were bidding farewell she said she hoped to see me again and I for some reason I cannot explain did not ask for her number. She seemed shy, and I am too. I was left kicking myself on the drive home. I went on facebook that night and typed her name into the search and found her (I have a very good memory). I sent a message that I enjoyed meeting her that day etc etc. She replied back with some chit chat. And that leaves me at a crossroads. I don't know what to do now. I could keep asking banal questions about school, or I could say that I found her to be a really nice person and would like to meet up (and reveal my intentions). Unsure what to do. P.S: her fb said she was "in a relationship" but with the way most of my friends are these days everyone is in relationships with friends or as jokes etc, so once again not sure what to make of that based on her signals around me.
BobSacamento Posted March 14, 2010 Posted March 14, 2010 Well she doesn't think your a creeper because she responded to your stalkerish type message method. I'd keep at it. Don't expect her to intiaite any conversation and set something up to meet for coffee or something ASAP before she becomes bored.
marsle85 Posted March 14, 2010 Posted March 14, 2010 Just ask her. Worst case scenario she confirms the relationship issue. No big deal.
confused and broken Posted March 14, 2010 Posted March 14, 2010 Ask her out as marsle85 says worst case it doesn't work then you know. Life is short you only live once.
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