sweetbaby23 Posted March 14, 2010 Posted March 14, 2010 So i had met this guy and we were getting to know each other. we had been seeing each other for about a month, just taking things slow and seeing how it went. i knew there was some interest, but i was still trying to figure out what he wanted and what i wanted out of it. then he just disappeared. looks like he had been arrested and was sent back to jail. i had known he had a bad history, but had no idea this was going on. it was just really sudden, like i was still getting to know him and about his history so i really had no clue. he seems like a good guy though... but now i dont really know what to do. im not sure what he wanted out of us, so do i wait? i really like him though, and him being away makes me realize how much i actually like him and miss having him around. he said he wasn't dating or seeing anyone else besides me. but i just dont know what to do. do i reach out? or just play it cool and let it go. i know he could use his friends during this time so i want to offer a hand, but am i overstepping my boundry? would he even want me to visit? should i send him an email here and there saying i miss him and am thinking of him so when he does get them he does know that i was thinking of him... or do i just try to act like i dont care, cuz what if he gets out and doesnt even care to contact me... i mean he hasnt called me already and he's been in there 2+ weeks now. but i mean he prob doesnt remember my number.. but yea... so i dont know if i should wait... ive kept in contact with his friends and told them to tell him i said hi... but i dont know what else i can do.
Stung Posted March 14, 2010 Posted March 14, 2010 No. You barely know this man, and you owe him nothing. You do owe yourself. Try to give yourself a happy, healthy life, without the drama and hardship of being involved with a criminal or even someone "wrongfully incarcerated." (You do know they ALL say they're innocent, right?) You are responsible for making your life successful. Make decisions for yourself that will NOT steer you towards being on the wrong side of the law, you are unlikely to find peace and happiness there.
JustLooking123 Posted March 14, 2010 Posted March 14, 2010 He sounds like a loser. Go find a man without a criminal record, and forget about him.
Barky Posted March 14, 2010 Posted March 14, 2010 Send him a couple of cartons of cigs with a shank in one. He'll be grateful.
LovelyDaze Posted March 14, 2010 Posted March 14, 2010 I don't mean to judge this guy but I think should back away slowly from this one. He has had a history of criminal behavior PLUS he is incarcerated now? By getting more involved with this man, you will be inheriting his drama that you do not want. Trust me.
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