juswannabe happi Posted March 14, 2010 Posted March 14, 2010 i'm feeling like my life will never be the way that i want it to be. It scares me. I know that only the things i allow to happen will. Yet i can not shake the feeling of unhappiness. the one i love with all my heart... i'm having a hard time trusting. I am more self conscious than usually. i just dont seem to know about anything anymore. I want to better my self and life but when i motivate myself it seems like things/ppl just keep knocking me down... How can i stay motivated towards creating a better future for myself? How can i learn to trust again? plz if you read this and have an input respond. i just really need some advice/support...
SaintDragon Posted March 14, 2010 Posted March 14, 2010 First thing is first. Why do YOU think you are feeling unhappy right now? What one thing is making you feel so uneasy and not happy? Do you have any medical conditions or think you may have?..Please seek a doctor's advice and do not rely only on this forum. You need to tackle the source of your unhappiness right now..the rest will work out later. Something is irritating you and that is the thing you need to talk about. I believe it's more than just non-motivation.
Author juswannabe happi Posted March 14, 2010 Author Posted March 14, 2010 i believe that i am feeling unhappy right now because things are not the way i imagined that would be at this stage in my life. my boyfriend and i constantly go through things, there is no financial stability, things keep happening to keep me down( or so it seems to me). you are right i need to tackle the source because although i came up with those reasons it made me think a lot about why i feel as if im unhappy and leads me to a place to start tackling the source(s). thx!
SaintDragon Posted March 14, 2010 Posted March 14, 2010 it's never the way we imagine at this stage for anyone ... Don't feel you are alone, because you are not. I'm 35, just got diagnosed with stupid diabetes, no GF, but I keep trucking along having fun to keep myself out of the gutter. It takes time and effort to get where and sometimes you need to slow down and tackle one thing at a time and not let everything rule your life, especially a BF that is more concerned of his feelings than yours. Just slow down a bit and figure out just one thing you'd like to get accomplished and concentrate on that, then go to the next and so on. Start small and work yourself up and don't get frustrated because it's not getting done fast enough or the way you expected. Also don't let people intimidate you...Do what will make you happy and if BF's right now are dragging you down..then F them, it doesn't have to rule your life. Don't worry about getting everything right NOW...it takes time and if it takes until you're 80..then so beit. Good luck and try to have crazy fun whenever you can lol.
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