St. Nick Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 You mean you love a woman who is easy and want to marry her and be your children's mother because she put out sex quicker, and who might do the same thing with other men? or you like her as a FWB? or you believe she only does this quick sex with you not with other men because you are so charming that she just cannot resist? Most people in this country assume that if a woman makes a man wait for sex then she has fewer sex partners than a woman who has sex quick. I don't believe this at all; it's idiotic to assume that a woman who makes me wait for sex is most likely going be be better in bed, a better lover, and a better person. Judging a woman entirely or mainly on how quickly they will have sex with me is the stupidest thing I've ever heard. Unfortunately, most of my countrymen disagree. I judge a woman on her personality, not mainly based on how quick she has sex with me. From my life experiences there is nothing to indicate that a woman who makes me wait for sex is less likely to cheat, be a bitch, crazy, or be a good lover. People in this country need to grow up; it's just consensual sex. Jeez. Even your parents did it.
Lovelybird Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 (edited) Most people in this country assume that if a woman makes a man wait for sex then she has fewer sex partners than a woman who has sex quick. I don't believe this at all; it's idiotic to assume that a woman who makes me wait for sex is most likely going be be better in bed, a better lover, and a better person. Judging a woman entirely or mainly on how quickly they will have sex with me is the stupidest thing I've ever heard. Unfortunately, most of my countrymen disagree. I judge a woman on her personality, not mainly based on how quick she has sex with me. From my life experiences there is nothing to indicate that a woman who makes me wait for sex is less likely to cheat, be a bitch, crazy, or be a good lover. People in this country need to grow up; it's just consensual sex. Jeez. Even your parents did it. I am not in your country. By the way our divorce rate is much lower than yours. you side is over sexualized. Three date sex seems idiotic and you mean how quick she is up to sex has nothing to do with her personality? Some women put out sexually not because they need that, but because of pressure, rather they are compulsive in doing it fearing if not then the man will disappear, this doesn't sound like love or free willed woman. Even she is very willing to have sex after 3 dates, after the seconds in heaven, she has to return to earth and face the awkward reality that she really doesn't know him well, he may never call again. Edited March 15, 2010 by Lovelybird
St. Nick Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 I am not in your country. By the way our divorce rate is much lower than yours. you side is over sexualized. Three date sex seems idiotic and you mean how quick she is up to sex has nothing to do with her personality? Some women put out sexually not because they need that, but because of pressure, rather they are compulsive in doing it fearing if not then the man will disappear, this doesn't sound like love or free willed woman. Even she is very willing to have sex after 3 dates, after the seconds in heaven, she has to return to earth and face the awkward reality that she really doesn't know him well, he may never call again. Oh, you're probably from the UK or Canada. The UK isn't that much better on sex (probably even worse), and Canada is definitely worse. Sometimes I wonder why English-speaking countries have people with the most prudish attitude toward sex. Back on topic: she could make him wait and still end up breaking up with him (which might be worse). This forum is filled with women who confess to making guys wait, and a ton of them are still single or divorced. Your argument that women who make a guy wait is more likely going to have a satisfying LTR is flawed. A woman keeps a man by her personality. If she has a great personality he's going to know that a woman like her comes around once in a lifetime and he's less likely to leave. Do you really believe that making a guy wait is automatically going to make him love you more? Well............good luck with that.
Johnny M Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 Oh, you're probably from the UK or Canada. The UK isn't that much better on sex (probably even worse), and Canada is definitely worse. Sometimes I wonder why English-speaking countries have people with the most prudish attitude toward sex. I often ponder the same question. It seems that wherever the British set their damn feet, they sowed the seeds of sexual frustration and disharmony between sexes. English speaking countries are by far the worst for dating (and have the ugliest women - but that's a different subject).
Lovelybird Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 Oh, you're probably from the UK or Canada. The UK isn't that much better on sex (probably even worse), and Canada is definitely worse. Sometimes I wonder why English-speaking countries have people with the most prudish attitude toward sex. Back on topic: she could make him wait and still end up breaking up with him (which might be worse). This forum is filled with women who confess to making guys wait, and a ton of them are still single or divorced. Your argument that women who make a guy wait is more likely going to have a satisfying LTR is flawed. A woman keeps a man by her personality. If she has a great personality he's going to know that a woman like her comes around once in a lifetime and he's less likely to leave. Do you really believe that making a guy wait is automatically going to make him love you more? Well............good luck with that. No, I am not in western world. and I don't believe make a man love me more by doing anything including quick sex or waiting sex, (too aggressive surely will kill the love already have). It is you who assume that if she puts out sexually, then he will stay, personality seems out of the picture. If you so care about her personality, what is the harm by waiting she is ready for sex? For a guy who isn't so into us and doesn't have patience to wait for her readiness, we don't regret breaking up with him
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