CARL45 Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 I haven't really been successful with women. Until I ran into this woman at my school. We were both outside and I saw her and she saw me. She asked me a question and we began to talk. She was studying for an exam and I asked if I could sit with her. She said yes! I found the situation surreal. I expected her to talk about having a boyfriend, but she didn't. I even asked for her number and I got it. We went out for lunch and now she wants to go out again. The only problem is I am wondering how I approach this thing going forward? This is all new to me!
Nukulus Posted March 14, 2010 Posted March 14, 2010 In my limited experience with women, and how I have always messed stuff up I would say this. Go with the flow. Don't overanalyze everything she does or doesnt do, because that will just lead you to thinking about pessimistic things which is a turn off to anybody. I would also say don't put all your eggs in one basket, and don't make yourself too available to this girl. From what I have gathered, and correct me if i'm wrong ladies, is that when first starting to date a new guy part of the excitement for the woman/girl is the unknown that comes with the new territory. If you come on too hard, make it appear that the only thing you've got going on in your life is her, then I feel that their excitement level drops. Of course, I'm single so what do I know. Best of luck mate.
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