Nukulus Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 Hi, I've been a lurker for a couple weeks here, and this is my first post. So maybe I should give a little background info. I'm a 23 year old male Graduate student with a little less than a year left until I graduate (and go to the real world, scary..) I live in a typical college town where the university has a 25,000+ enrollment. So on to the situation that motivated me to finally register. I was at a sports bar with my friend and his girlfriend last night watching some college basketball. We were there for several hours and our waitress was very attractive. Being the single one I was of course flirting and she was reciprocating. I really thought nothing of it because, hey she's good at her job and knows how to get tips. That is until I came back from the restroom and my friend and his girlfriend are kinda laughing/looking embarrassed with the waitress. I go to sit down and the waitress says-- "here, I have a surprise for you..." and then she turns and writes her name (first only), phone number, and a little heart on some blank receipt paper. I was pretty stunned as I've never had something like that happen to me. Now I know my friends girlfriend said something to nudge her into giving me her number, but certainly (if the number is real) this goes beyond normal waitress-patron flirting? So my question is.... what do I do? Do I contact her? Text/call? and what to say without coming off as some creep or whatever. Sorry for the novel, and thanks for your help!
Xo-Lindsay-oX Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 Just text her with something simple at first until you get to know her ans d why exactly she gave the number. She wouldn't want you immeditaely jumping into it i wouldn't think.
Author Nukulus Posted March 13, 2010 Author Posted March 13, 2010 Just text her with something simple at first until you get to know her ans d why exactly she gave the number. She wouldn't want you immeditaely jumping into it i wouldn't think. Yes, I agree with that. I mean I'm not gonna come on super strong... I don't even know this girl. But at the same time what is something simple in this case? I also feel I should probably send something by the end of the day at the latest...because eventually she'll forget about it.
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